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On Wed, 17 Dec 1997 21:30:43 -0800, "dcata" <dcata@ibm.net> wrote:

>Just wanted to say that I've known this girl named Alice for about a year
>now, I met her at school when we did a skit together and I fell in love with
>her right away. I asked her out a few weeks later but she said that she
>needed to know me more before getting serious. That really hurt but I
>remained persistent and since then she became one of my best friends. My
>love for her has grown since and now it's been a couple of months where I
>can't stop thinking about her. I'm totally crazy about her, I think it's
>because I admire her so much for being so smart and kind. ( something that I
>love in a girl ). It's killing me inside and I can't work anymore and I'm
>always feeling depressed. I want to tell her how much I love her but I'm
>afraid that she doesn't feel at least some feelings for me, I couldn't take
>it if she'd reject me. She is the only person that can hurt me more that any
>physical pain in the world, or on the opposite, the sunshine of my life.

Mat, you said that the girl said that she wouldn't go out with you
unless she knew you better, are the two of you dating now or are you
just friends and she's seeing other guys, too?  That should tell you
somewhat where you stand.  If you're doing things as friends and she's
seeing other guys it's quite likely that you two will only be friends.
If you're dating, it's possible that she might be comfortable with you
saying that you love her.

BUT, either way you really need to step back, calm down, and get a
better perspective on this.  You're way too emotionally involved right
now and just springing such a strong love on someone is bound to make
them nervous, especially if you've only been friends.  You could end
up ruining everything that you have if you over-react and started
pushing too hard.

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