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Re: Australians Best Personals Services

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From: Near_True_Majesty
Date: Fri, 31 Jul 1998 00:00
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In article <35C101F4.12C2CB6D@hunnybee.com.au>,
  hunnybee@hunnybee.com.au wrote:

Hello Melissa,
Thankyou for replying. I have pruned the followups to 3 newsgroups.
Your pages look even better with a graphic browser :-)

> Tejay M Sener wrote:
> > In aus.personals Melissa BEE <hunnybee@hunnybee.com.au> wrote:
> > > aus.personals homepageThe ONLY Personals Resource on the Internet. Caters
> > > for all people no matter what your age.
> > > Covers everything relating to personals, with a focus on Australia.
> > > Browse and post Personals Ads, all totally FREE. Something for everyone
> > > here. Come and take a look
> > > http://www.ats.com.au/aus.personals/
> > Hello Melissa,
> > I had a look at your personals site, and even with Lynx was able to see
> > that you went to great pains to give it that personal touch.
> > However I could not find a section/category for just freinds. You know for
> > the umm, how shall I say it, shy or socially awkward (maybe even inept)
> > kind, who still wish to get together, and not just email, but may find
> > blatant advertising for sex, or looking for marriage too threatening (That
> > dreaded 'C' word).
> > Constuctively yours,
> > Tejay M Sener (not to be confused by that pederast 'tejay@bigfoot.com'),
> > s890...
> There are a few things you may have missed:
> Have a look in the Pen-Pal or E-Mail Pal Section.... that's basically what
> that is for, with the hope that you will not *STAY*  socially inept, shy or
> awkward. There are hundreds of contacts there.

Thats what I meant to allude to when I wrote above "and not just email."
Your email pages are excellent I think.

The thing is/was that I have been on another personals site for as long as
they have been in existence. I have received quiete a few 'hits' if I can
call them that. But the odds of any of them developing into physical real
world friendships/relationships have been substantially reduced by the fact
that said site is predominantly a US or world site. Most of the ladies were
on average 15,000 km or miles (at that distance the units were meaningless).

Eventually I began to develop this frustration with many email
'relationships' not eventuating into anything physical. You know, there were
times when I would have liked to have gone out to the park, or beach, or
dinner, or movie, or dance  - on the odd occasion with someone nice.

Anyway, all is not lost. One lady has been working very hard for the last year
or so, and she is reeling me in with surprising tenacity.

> Especially if you hate the C word.

I don't hate it. It's just that I would like to see if I could be friends
with a person first of all, before I even respond to eg "SWF looking for long
term relationship." I dont find it at all amazing that many women have a lot
more courage than I in willing to dive straight into the deep end.

> Also look in the CHAT Section - The ICQ Club now has 228 members all of whom
> are friendly chatters. So if you have ICQ, send me your details to join the
> list, or message someone on the list.
> If you don't have ICQ, download it off the next page!

Dont have an ISP :-(
rmit forbids running non-course related software (thats gonna be my line
anyway). And I tried.

> If you can send me some details of the closest town to you, I can send some
> contacts for you. I have a lot of mixed research data here, not ready for
> publishing.

See below.

> August 2nd is NATIONAL FRIENDSHIP DAY

In that case I'm staying home the other 364 days then.

> So pop into the Dating Section and send someone- anyone - a card, gram, or
> friendship URL.

Will do.

> Also something we have coming is a PRIVATE Personal.  A detailed personal
> advertisement, as explicit as you like, with up to five photographs. You set
> the URL and choose your own password. Only you tell whomever about your ad,
> its not on public display, can't be flamed, and you control who see's it.
> Interested? Then email me.

Maybe later if things dont work out.

**** And also in replying to Truth you wrote ****

> Truth wrote:
> > Same here Tejay and i was looking for the same section :)
> Well, if you both want a Section Called "JUST FRIENDS"
> Send me your advertisements, and I will create it for you.

Things are developing so fast.
I don't know if I get loyal due to a bout of guilt,
or I'm just chickening out again.
I think I'll take a raincheck on this.

But I'm sure that others should and would respond.

WAIT! Its just >>friends<< right!? Okay I will email you with the details.

Here's what I meant by a Friends section:

Those looking for people with similar interests, so they can share those
interests as moments together in person. Eg those who just wanna share a
concert ticket with someone.

They would most likely meet in cyberspace by email or irc or ICQ, but really
what they want is someone in physical company within about a week, and
probably sooner. Email romance would still have a life of its own.

Friends should not have expectations of marriage, or sex, or dress up dates,
or commitments, but I wouldn't be at all surprised if they will lead to those
things with a higher percentage.

> Simple as that.

Yes it is. Thankyou again Melissa for your work and response.

> Melissa BEE
> aus.personals - Chat/News/Personals Resouces/Advertising
> http://www.ats.com.au/aus.personals/

Tejay M Sener, s890..
Disclaimer: I speak for myself.
"lonely, n. In bad company. Ambrose Bierce, The Devils Dictionary"

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Subject: Re: Australians Best Personals Services
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