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Started by Sue Raul
Thu, 12 Nov 1992 14:32
A few thoughts and opinions on BBW and Radiance
Author: Sue Raul
Date: Thu, 12 Nov 1992 14:32
Date: Thu, 12 Nov 1992 14:32
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Hello fellow asbf readers, First and update: I found BBW in a magazine store yesterday, so no one has to forward the info I asked for prior to that. Thanks to those who already did. I also found Radiance at a local large-size clothing store. Having read the two, I found I liked Radiance more. For one thing, the models in BBW did not look "large" to me, and it made me feel like I was "out of the loop" to see a magazine devoted to "bbw's" that didn't include women who looked like I do. In Radiance there were plenty of pictures of women my size, smaller than my size, and larger than my size. I definitely felt I had a place there. Second, the articles. In BBW I was pretty annoyed by the "t.v. shows I'd like to see" article. These "plots" were supposed to be funny, but they did not amuse me. They were about food and dieting. Food and dieting. As if that's all there is to our lives. In Radiance, there were some incredibly real, touching, hitting home stories about real life, getting through bad times, succeeding through the best of times. I especially liked the children's clothing article, the "woman who was in the hospital after an accident" article, and the "facing mom" article. These things have relevance and can make a significant difference in someone's life. In the BBW article about "BBW's and the Men Who Love Them" there were at least two stories about a man who hurt a BBW instead of loved one. The "Hollywood" story and the guy who made his wife diet until they divorced. This shouldn't have been under "men who love them" but something quite different. It seemed like BBW focused more on cosmetics and looks through pictures and articles about lips, bathing, lingere', fashion, and less about inner struggles and triumphs. To its credit, I did appreciate the mattress article. Reading Radiance gave me a feeling of finally finding a community I belonged to (like this group!). The magazine was so positive and encouraging. It was something I wish I had discovered 20 years ago. I just hope it gets through its financial struggle right now and keeps going. These have been my opinions after reading one issue of each magazine. I realize that long-time readers of both magazines might have something more to add. No flames, please! If you agree or disagree with my opinions, let's hear from you! Sue
Re: A few thoughts and opinions on BBW and Radiance
Author: Michelle Berteig
Date: Thu, 12 Nov 1992 17:25
Date: Thu, 12 Nov 1992 17:25
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Hi! I agree with Sue. I find I read BBW mostly just for the fashion layouts (so I can see what's new, etc.), but I also prefer Radiance magazine for the articles they offer. Hey, when I started subscribing, I ordered all of the back issues!! If only most of their advertisers were not in the Bay Area... Just my $0.02, Michelle
Re: A few thoughts and opinions on BBW and Radiance
Author: Marty M HaleEvans
Date: Fri, 13 Nov 1992 17:03
Date: Fri, 13 Nov 1992 17:03
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Hi, Sue -- By and large (no pun intended), I agree with a lot of what you said about _BBW_ and _Radiance_. However, I subscribe to both for different reasons. I discovered BBW first, as a lot of us do, because it's bigger and it's on the newsstands. I have a long-term love/hate relationship with it. As you noticed, it does miss the point sometimes. The main problem I have with it is that it tends to be uneven; sometimes it has really great things to say, and sometimes it pulls a real boner. I write and tell them when that happens. The main reason I still love it, though, is for the clothes, of course. Like any fashion magazine, it shows us some of the possibilities. I *don't* mean in terms of size, but in terms of clothes, makeup, accessories, and total look. I've found some of my most powerful mental imagery of how gorgeous a large woman can look from the pages of BBW. And even though their models are smaller than I am, they're larger than other fashion magazines, and look to me more like normal women. (and their *beautiful* cover model for December is a size 26, complete with double chin) Anyway, like most fashion magazines, it's geared toward looks and extremes. Radiance is food for the heart. Now that I've found it, I'd never give it up. It's angry, joyous, funny, supportive, intelligent. I never read a new issue that I don't cry over part of it. I learn from it, see women as large as I am as a rule, find strength from it, and hold my head higher after reading it. Radiance is like a good friend. But, unfortunately, she can only come and visit four times a year (which is another reason I keep BBW, which is monthly). Another thing I like about Radiance is that it talks so much less about relationships with men than BBW does, and more about the relationships women have with themselves. Sometimes the former is useful, but the latter is always useful. So that's my (long) take on it. I'll keep reading them both, for now. Anyone else? Marty =+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+= "Seems like there ought to be a way we could look each other in the eye To see we're all in this together, and put all thoughts of victory aside. Seems like there ought to be a way we could turn this fear into trust; No matter what you say, there has to be a way -- Every living thing is counting on us." Marty Hale-Evans M @ * O % 8 U 89 Mass. Ave., Ste. 199, Boston, MA 02115 \|/ \|/ \|/ \|/ \|/ \|/ \|/
Re: A few thoughts and opinions on BBW and Radiance
Author: Marty M HaleEvans
Date: Sun, 15 Nov 1992 18:15
Date: Sun, 15 Nov 1992 18:15
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avery@netcom.com (Avery Ray Colter) writes: >there definitely are such classes. I even recall a film by a Boston group >clled the Boston Fat Liberation which was about the possibilities of >body-building for large women. Yow! I realize it's a long shot, Avery, but do you have any more info about that group, or know where I can find it? Marty =+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+= "Seems like there ought to be a way we could look each other in the eye To see we're all in this together, and put all thoughts of victory aside. Seems like there ought to be a way we could turn this fear into trust; No matter what you say, there has to be a way -- Every living thing is counting on us." Marty Hale-Evans M @ * O % 8 U 89 Mass. Ave., Ste. 199, Boston, MA 02115 \|/ \|/ \|/ \|/ \|/ \|/ \|/
Re: A few thoughts and opinions on BBW and Radiance
Author: various Howellses
Date: Sun, 15 Nov 1992 18:58
Date: Sun, 15 Nov 1992 18:58
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Two questions: 1. How can I get a copy of Radiance? I've not seen it on the newsstands, even though I've looked a few times. 2. Which issue of BBW had the "where to find large-sized clothes" list? I just bought the November '92 issue, and it didn't have squat, particularly for out here in the east. Ok.. I lied, third question coming: 3. If someone has the above-mentioned list, could I ask them to e-mail me? Thank you! --Nancy Howells (beh@gnu.ai.mit.edu)
Re: A few thoughts and opinions on BBW and Radiance
Author: Michelle Berteig
Date: Mon, 16 Nov 1992 02:47
Date: Mon, 16 Nov 1992 02:47
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Hi, The December issue of BBW is the one with the article "Life after size 26W" and the resource list. If I can dig it up, maybe I will type it in... --Michelle Berteig
Re: A few thoughts and opinions on BBW and Radiance
Author: Miriam Nadel
Date: Mon, 16 Nov 1992 20:45
Date: Mon, 16 Nov 1992 20:45
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I read Radiance regularly (in fact, I subscribe to it) and I think it's a great magazine. I don't love every article in it, but for the most part I enjoy the contents. I've even recommended it to thin women for the articles on women who are accomplishing things. I pick up BBW at the newstand every now and then. Too much of it reminds me of the sort of fashion magazines I outgrew by the time I was in college. I find their fiction particularly annoying - reminiscent of Harlequin romances (which I consider appropriate reading only for airplanes, where I can leave them behind without caring). Their models are as small as size 12. Now, I recognize that samples come in limited sizes, but they don't seem to be fighting this enough. I have to admit that my sense of style is somewhat different from most of what I see in BBW - I have yet to see anything there that I could reasonably wear to work and there's little that's weird enough for me to wear for play. Still, I do feel that I ought to support them, that BBW does help a lot of people, and that every now and then they have an article that's on the mark. So a few times a year, I find myself adding a copy to my newspaper, puzzle magazines (I am hopelessly addicted to Dell Logic Puzzles!) and odds and ends at the magazine rack. Miriam Nadel
Re: A few thoughts and opinions on BBW and Radiance
Author: Avery Ray Colter
Date: Fri, 20 Nov 1992 00:14
Date: Fri, 20 Nov 1992 00:14
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marty@world.std.com (Marty M HaleEvans) writes:
>>body-building for large women.
>Yow! I realize it's a long shot, Avery, but do you have any more info about
>that group, or know where I can find it?
>Marty
I'd have to tap a few waists to track down that info again, but I'll see
what I can find out.
--
Avery Ray Colter ("Elfcat") - avery@netcom.netcom.com (IP 192.100.81.100)
(510) 656-1902
"Heaviness is the root of lightness; calmness is the controller of haste"
Re: A few thoughts and opinions on BBW and Radiance
Author: Avery Ray Colter
Date: Fri, 20 Nov 1992 00:19
Date: Fri, 20 Nov 1992 00:19
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Radiance's address is
PO Box 30246
Oakland, CA 94604
(510) 482-0680
They might send you a copy (tell 'em Avery sent you ;) ).
Otherwise, I know that Alice Ansfield brings copies of Radiance
or authorizes a few copies to be taken to NAAFA regional and national cons.
Subscription price is $15/1yr, $25/2yrs in USA, $20 and $35 in Canada,
$23 and $41 in other countries, with our very own 8.25% tax in California.
A mag well worth the couple hours of wages.
--
Avery Ray Colter ("Elfcat") - avery@netcom.netcom.com (IP 192.100.81.100)
(510) 656-1902
"Heaviness is the root of lightness; calmness is the controller of haste"
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