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Article #2846Re: I keep falling for abusive guys cuz I'm a freakmagnet!
From: Jane
Date: Sat, 29 Mar 2008 05:15
Date: Sat, 29 Mar 2008 05:15
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"Jean Baptiste Emanuel Zorg" <comicsupervillian@narcissisticnecrophilousantihero.org> wrote in message news:47ecbdf0_4@mk-nntp-2.news.uk.tiscali.com... > the_dawggie wrote: >> On Mar 28, 8:15 pm, Jean Baptiste Emanuel Zorg >> <comicsupervill...@narcissisticnecrophilousantihero.org> wrote: >>> Jane wrote: >>>> "Jean Baptiste Emanuel Zorg" >>>> <comicsupervill...@narcissisticnecrophilousantihero.org> wrote in >>>> messagenews:47eb5fa8$1_3@mk-nntp-2.news.uk.tiscali.com... >>>>> cal wrote: >>>>>> Jean Baptiste Emanuel Zorg wrote: >>>>>>> Jane wrote: >>>>>>>> "Jean Baptiste Emanuel Zorg" >>>>>>>> <comicsupervill...@narcissisticnecrophilousantihero.org> wrote >>>>>>>> in >>>>>>>> messagenews:47e8e9df$1_4@mk-nntp- >>>>>>>>> I appreciate your humility and I realize your defensiveness of >>>>>>>>> your friends. Although, just because someone is your friend >>>>>>>>> doesn't make it right whatever they do. That's the only >>>>>>>>> problem I >>>>>>>>> had, it wasn't with you solely. >>>>>>>> Oh I agree and I'm not always right that's for sure, and >>>>>>>> definately >>>>>>>> sometimes it takes a brick but when I'm wrong I really do try >>>>>>>> to >>>>>>>> admit it. I don't always agree with my friends in here and >>>>>>>> most of >>>>>>>> the time when I don't agree I don't say a lot. Part of it is >>>>>>>> because it doesn't do any good anyway and another part is my >>>>>>>> own >>>>>>>> cowardness at times. Though there are times I'm just set off >>>>>>>> and >>>>>>>> start spouting when I shouldn't and usually don't figure that >>>>>>>> out >>>>>>>> until after the fact. >>>>>>> It's the same with me. Doesn't matter anyway. I forget arguments >>>>>>> pretty quickly. >>>>>>>>> It seems natural to me. When you perceive something to have a >>>>>>>>> problem, (as you probably see me as), you get an urge to help. >>>>>>>>> I >>>>>>>>> don't have any problem with. It's just that being a teenager >>>>>>>>> doesn't make anyone less intuitive. I could spot a pedophile >>>>>>>>> or a >>>>>>>>> predator from a mile away. >>>>>>>> I'm so glad to read this... I honestly don't care what you did >>>>>>>> with whom it's really none of my business, some of the anger I >>>>>>>> felt >>>>>>>> towards Dawgg was what seemed like an adult trying to lure you >>>>>>>> in >>>>>>>> with love and attention, which I have no clue if you needed or >>>>>>>> not >>>>>>>> or any other vulnerabilities you may have and it royally pissed >>>>>>>> me >>>>>>>> off. >>>>>>> It needn't. I never loved him at all. It was just more of sexual >>>>>>> thing. I thought at the time that I might be gay/trans,m but now >>>>>>> I've decided that I'm not and we left it at that. Now I can't >>>>>>> seem >>>>>>> to shake him. >>>>>>>> As far as losing your virginity at 16? naw no big deal really, >>>>>>>> kids today are losing it much younger, as long as you were >>>>>>>> using >>>>>>>> protection, more power to ya, if that's what you really wanted >>>>>>>> to >>>>>>>> do. I lost mine at 16 (chose to have sex) so who am I to >>>>>>>> judge. >>>>>>> I think losing it at 16 is the ideal age and I don't personally >>>>>>> have >>>>>>> a problem with that. But the Dawg says he lost it at 9! NINE of >>>>>>> all >>>>>>> ages! And since I've known him, he's been telling me that losing >>>>>>> your virginity at 16 is too late! I think it may do him good to >>>>>>> hear >>>>>>> from other people when they lost their virginity, because he has >>>>>>> some really bizarre ideas about virginity. >>>>>> the whole idea of a guy losing his "virginity" has never made >>>>>> much >>>>>> sense >>>>>> to me, but if it has any meaning at all, it must refer to the >>>>>> first >>>>>> time >>>>>> he has penetrative sex with a woman. for me that was at 17. >>>>>> by this definition it's almost impossible for a boy to "lose it" >>>>>> at >>>>>> nine. dawggie obviously means something else, and i'm sure i >>>>>> could >>>>>> happily live to the end of my days without ever knowing what. >>>>> Thank you cal. This really needs to be cleared up because he has >>>>> emailed me so many times saying that the age I lost my virginity >>>>> was >>>>> "too late" and saying I have sexual anorexia. >>>>> So there you go. You lost yours at 17, Jane at 16, Me at 16. >>>>> He will learn soon. >>>>> I neither believe that he lost his virginity consensually, I think >>>>> he >>>>> was either raped, or he raped another. >>>> I'll add to it, my daughter was 15, my son 17, my sister was 16, my >>>> best >>>> friend was 16 >>> Thanks. Now if the dawg still thinks the average age is nine, he is >>> truly deluded! >> >> Well I'm not telling names, however you are wrong. >> At age nine I had sex with other folk. >> >> Believe it. It happens. I feel sorry for you it didn't >> when you where younger. >> >> However you need to believe it does. I'm telling >> the truth. >> >> It happens. As Adults that still know each other it's >> not discussued, however, it took place. >> >> You are fairly dumb to not know this (or more importantly >> admit to it). > > > Why are you following me around everywhere I go and post? > Fuck off! It's creepy... You're being stalked
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