Article View: alt.support.relationships
Article #14Re: Being good looking is all you need to be
From: damesd
Date: Wed, 02 Feb 2000 00:00
Date: Wed, 02 Feb 2000 00:00
36 lines
2373 bytes
2373 bytes
Re: ASL
what do we get from an ASL? It gives us a box to put people in. If we know
their age, sex and location, we tend to make judgements about who they are.
Just like "nice guys" make judgements about traditionally physically
handsome guys. Just like jilted lovers make judgements about the reasons
they were dumped. Maybe it's hard to face the truth about yourself. Maybe
you're not so nice and not so good looking so you loose on both counts and
that's hard to face. It's not such a dichotomous thing. Anyone can possess
any number of traits. It's how you feel when you are with them and that
doesn't come from them as much as it comes from you. Sorry to run on. The
point is we can only work on ourselves, we can't change other people.
Papilion <papilion@mindspring.com> wrote in message
news:872ah6$jjq$1@nntp9.atl.mindspring.net...
> ASL......age, sex and location
>
> --
> If wishes were butterflies.....
> .....we would never see the sun.....}i{
> Danny Hayes <dantan@one.net.au> wrote in message
> news:389494c3@pink.one.net.au...
> > What the Hell is a ASL? LOL
> >
> > --
> > ICQ DANTAN UIN 12024426
> > EMAIL: dantan@telstra.com
> > ICQ ACTIVE List TASMANIA TALKING #52723669
> > AOL instant pager name :- smortaus
> > http://www.icq.com/12024426 pager
> >
> > have a nice day........ :-)
> > http://sites.netscape.net/smortaus/homepage
> > *****END*****
> >
> >
>
>
Technical Details
Message-ID:
<38989455_1@news.nni.com>Path:
arc1-ca.pugleaf.net!unknown!not-for-mailReferences:
<pro-2501001129310001@d020.meldas5.access.net.au> <86jfgh$pbg$1@nnrp1.deja.com> <389494c3@pink.one.net.au> <872ah6$jjq$1@nntp9.atl.mindspring.net>Show Full Headers
Complete Article Headers
X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: 115284,d4d68136054eb343 X-Google-Attributes: gid115284,public X-Google-Thread: 10ba12,27f4667fdcfe2f5f X-Google-Attributes: gid10ba12,public X-Google-Thread: 1057d9,d4d68136054eb343 X-Google-Attributes: gid1057d9,public X-Google-Thread: fbf61,d4d68136054eb343 X-Google-Attributes: gidfbf61,public From: "damesd" <damesd@nni.com> Subject: Re: Being good looking is all you need to be Date: 2000/02/02 Message-ID: <38989455_1@news.nni.com> X-Deja-AN: 580946849 References: <pro-2501001129310001@d020.meldas5.access.net.au> <86jfgh$pbg$1@nnrp1.deja.com> <389494c3@pink.one.net.au> <872ah6$jjq$1@nntp9.atl.mindspring.net> X-Trace: 2 Feb 2000 15:32:21 -0500, phila-dialup038.nni.com X-MSMail-Priority: Normal X-Priority: 3 Newsgroups: alt.support.relationships,alt.support.loneliness,alt.support.shyness,atl.singles X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V5.00.2314.1300