🚀 go-pugleaf

I agree with this guy. After all your personal add said you were"
nice, caring, intelligent, romantic ". So how far off was that? None
of it true? All of it true? So then its the picture that is freaking
you out? See if you connect with any of them on the phone first,
if so take it like a man. Just suck it up, and turn it around. Just be
flat out, and tell them you don't think your the greatest looking guy,
but your really fun. (you are aren't you?) If they don't what have
you lost? Let me tell you, there a very few guys who are Don
Juan. Even the attractive guys can be full of annoying habits.
What did you think was going to happen in this situation? Now
are you really convinced that girls suck? Do you feel better that
you have really proved it to yourself?  That's what you wanted
wasn't it? That way you don't have to look at yourself for the
reason your having problems dating. That's right.  You. I'm
sorry to sound harsh here, but I have known plenty of guys
who use the same cop out so they can get away with putting
very little effort into dating or themselves. Just being a man who
is confident will get you a long way. Things in life rarely come to
you. You have to make an effort to get the things you want.
I admit I don't know you, but this is what comes across to me.

Crystal
Who's been lurking from time to time. I had to unlurk today because
I just get so tired of guys blaming women for everything that is
wrong in their lives.




Papilion <papilion@mindspring.com> wrote in message
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> I vote for #4
>
> papi....}i{
>
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> If wishes were butterflies.....
> .....we would never see the sun.....}i{
> daniel <pro@survey.freehosting.net> wrote in message
> news:pro-2701001557120001@d079.meldas5.access.net.au...
> > ok thanks showing some interest in my initial post.....
> > i guess opinions are divided...that i expected, but my problem now is
what
> > do i do about all the replies i got thru the ad??......I have made a
point
> > to answer all of them atleast once by saying 'thankyou...can you tell me
> > more about yourself' etc....kept it short and sweet.
> >
> > so what to do???.....i guess my options are:
> >
> > 1) select a few and continue contact and really string them along as
much
> > as possible then tell them much later on...'well its all been a
> > lie'!.....i'm tempted to do this and teach them a lesson, but being such
a
> > nice guy that i am.....my conscious would get the better of me....hahaha
> >
> > 2) give an excuse like i'm going overseas and cant email or tell them
ive
> > gone back to my old girlfriend or better yet, tell them i was in an
> > accident and my whole face and body has been terribly disfigured...'even
> > ugly people find me ugly'....LOL
> >
> > 3) reject them in a subtle way....tell them i'm not interested in
further
> > contact.
> >
> > 4) just confess to them all and be prepared for a backlash
> >
> > 5) discontinue any communication...(eeer that would be the cowards way)
> >
> >
> >
> > hmmmmmm.........whats a nice guy to do
> > :-))
>
>