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In article <pro-2501001129310001@d020.meldas5.access.net.au>,
  pro@survey.freehosting.net (daniel) wrote:
> For once in my life i decided to do a not so nice thing. I placed a
fake
> ad in a singles site. I wrote down in the profile some basic
stuff....made
> him out to be nice, caring, intelligent, romantic and also put in a
pic of
> a very good looking guy.
>
> I did this for many reasons, but mainly out of curiosity to see who
would
> be dumb enough to believe the ad was real. Within a few days, i
started to
> get many emails, some voicemail messages, mobile numbers, pics,
offers of
> sex...etc.....it was getting ridiculous!!! And the really sad thing
was,
> that every reply i got was based purely on the guys looks and nothing
> more.

Did you place real information about yourself and did you include your
pic in a (different) magazine before? How did the girls and women they
react to that ad?

I have to say, that I don't find myself goodlooking (red hair, 6 feet -
180 cm, 176 lbs - 80 kg, wear glasses, have a moustache, no beard, 33
years old) but I know that I am friendly - intelligent - have a sence
of humor and some women do appreciate that - but I am also High
Functioning Autistic. I seem to be very popular for 15 - 18 years old
girls, and many women look at me. I still don't find myself extremely
attractive. Apparently others find me that way.

I would describe myself as a shy nerd (because I fit well in the
description of a computer nerd).

> I finally confessed to one girl and told her the truth, mainly cos she
> slighty suspected the whole thing was fake anyway (well done to
her!). She
> didnt seem too upset by it and we continued to talk. She told me in
her
> opinion, girls are "more attracted to somebody that can make them
laugh,
> respects them and their career and is kind and genuine"....i thought
> yeah...what a load of BULLSHIT!

I still think that that is not totally bullshit. I see women enough
with ugly guys: fat bold guys that smoke and drink way too much! I
wouldn't want to have a relationship with one of them, if I were I girl
or a woman.

And I don't like extremely attractive women. They are often arrogant
and pretty (not extremely beautiful) ones often test me out: "How would
he react when I look at him for minutes without any interruption?" I
feel that they are playing a stinking game, in which they want me to
walk into.

> Now let me tell you, i dont consider myself to be very good looking
but i
> am NOT ugly either and i know that i am a really nice, caring and fun
> person to be with...infact all the things she said girls are more
> attracted to. So why is it that i cannot even get any girl to give me
1
> sec of their attention. Why is it that when i smile, say hello and be
> friendly.....they look at me like i dont exist(???)......

I don't know why that is... I think it is because women expect men to
take steps. And they seem to get angry if men behave different from
what women expect. I have had a lot of problems with girls because I am
autistic, and I react different from what they expect. Shy men seem to
be out of luck... :-(

> This whole dating and relationship thing is based purely on looks and
> nothing more....women i have discovered are even more shallower than
men
> and what they really think and what they say is two completely
different
> things....and yet they play these little games because they know they
can
> get away with it and then whinge about how they never meet any nice
men.

I have a few questions because of my lack of knowledge of English
(English is my third language). What do you mean by:
- They get away with it (generally I have an idea what this sentence
means, but what does it mean in this context?)?
- They whinge about how they never meet any nice men?

> The only thing girls want is a good looking guy, with a big dick and a
> bigger bank balance!

The taste might different for each woman, but I have almost no positive
experiences with girls and women.

Hans Kamp.


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