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Re: Russian Women Dating or Dating Russian Women - WHY?

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From: Bluebeard
Date: Thu, 15 Mar 2007 13:00
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<jessica@livedatesearch.com> wrote in message 
news:1173947635.172976.141760@y80g2000hsf.googlegroups.com...
> Hi Group!
>
> I have just found a nice website www.kiskis.net - free pics of Russian
> Women for Dating.
> It is actually a link page to another great dating website 
> www.livedatesearch.com
> that is my favorite one by the way :)
>
> When I have opened it I remembered when I was in Russia and Ukraine
> last year.
> It was beautiful time for me and I really enjoyed the trip.. yeah, I
> love Russia and Ukraine!
>
> But what I ask myself is why western men prefer Russian women???
>
> I know many men who really think that Russian and Ukrainian girls are
> the best in the world!
> I'm disappointed :(
>
> You can take a look at dating russian women pictures here: 
> http://www.kiskis.net/
> and compare...
>
> Do you think they are nice?
>
> How do you think - why Western men prefer Russian women?
>
> Chao!
> Jessica.
>

I feel rather sorry for these girls, being presented as commodities.  Yeah, 
I know that's how the world works and I too evaluate women on their looks, 
but....

I have had two Russian "girlfriends", both of whom I met.  I also learned to 
speak Russian.

Both were attractive, but in neither case did I feel at ease enough to get 
turned on.  There's a sort of glitzy superficiality to their beauty. Russian 
women have an extremely hard shell - they have to in order to survive in 
traditional male-dominated Russian society  - but they are totally different 
when safely in the bosom of their trusted families.

In my case, what bedevilled the growth of a natural, genuine relationship 
was her unspoken agenda - to find financial security through marrying a 
foreign passport-holder and to start a family.  I was a means to an end, not 
an end in myself.

They're not big on 'personal freedom' - it's all (necessarily) about 
survival and family obligation. Men are expected to be men and women - 
women. Just having a funny friendship on an equal footing with another 
interesting person was out.

Maybe American gals aren't so bad after all...  ;-)

Bluebeard 
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