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Started by Ed Mendez
Wed, 28 Mar 2001 01:04
Russian Women
Author: Ed Mendez
Date: Wed, 28 Mar 2001 01:04
Date: Wed, 28 Mar 2001 01:04
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Free videos of beautiful russian women for marriage. Not spam, I personally think it's great. www.lifetimepartners.com THE MISSION ---------------------- Our main mission in life is ultimately to find some meaningful purpose for it. It is entirely possible that one day we will wake up and realize that our lives have little meaning without the presence of real love there. Many of us compromise ourselves and accept mediocrity in our relationships, because we don't believe that real love is possible. Or we will construct our life and our dreams without love having any type of role in our futures. Yet it is highly probable that if the woman of our dreams were more accessible to us in our everyday life, we would believe in love because it is in our blueprint, and we could become more focused on becoming enlivened once again with the rapture of being in a loving relationship. As you read on, you will see that it is indeed possible to meet that special someone in your life, who may be that perfect version of yourself who is waiting for you right now somewhere far away in a small Russian province 8000 miles from your home. LOOKING OVERSEAS ----------------------------------- The process of finding the woman of your dreams and then winning her heart isn't so difficult when we are aware of how to use all of our natural leverage. Routinely, day to day, we fight the odds of economic and social gravity in the U.S. dating scene (unfavorable supply/demand ratios, varied love interests with different goals and unrealistic expectations), and it rarely happens that we meet the woman that we've always dreamed about meeting. It's true that there are very few places where a surplus of single women exists, and there is always a great deal of competition for those desired few. In places where single men are not in high demand, there is a very low probability that "Mr. Norm L. Guy" will ever meet the woman he's always dreamed about, and if he does, what are the chances that she's available and only interested in him? It's often difficult to accept that the odds are strongly stacked against us here in the U.S., and so we'll try over and over here with mixed or poor results, or we will simply settle for a life partner, as many of our friends do, who is a compromise between the woman that we've always dreamed about and the best available possibility we may find stumble upon in our local area. For an ordinary guy with extraordinary dreams, there are better ways to go about finding the love of a lifetime, and the best way is to make the best use of our leverage in this world as a single male. In contrast to the lack of options here in the U.S., the situation in Russia regarding available female partners is the stark opposite. The 1999 Rand McNally Atlas Census Report reports that Russia, Latvia, and the Ukraine as the three leading nations in the world with the highest ratio of women available in relation to single men. When you add this to the fact that Soviet men join the military after they have their eighteenth birthday, leaving their home cities often to never return, you have ratios of women to men in the dating ages that sometimes exceed 2-1, which is cataclysmic to the survival of the Russian population. When was the last time you actually attended a social gathering where the ratio of women to men was somewhere close to 2-1 or even 3-1, and all the attention was focused on you, and you were simply overwhelmed by all the options? This is the plight of the single man in Russia. It is not the plight of the single man here in America. CHOOSING THE RIGHT APPROACH ------------------------------------------------------- Given that you have an open mind now to finding Mrs. Right not necessarily from your local city, county, state, or even country, there are several different approaches to go about achieving your goal. 1. BUYING ADDRESSES --------------------------------------- Many firms on the Internet, in fact most of them, offer addresses for purchase from mail-order catalogs or of "still photos" of beautiful foreign girls posted on their Web Sites. In fact, most mail-order firms advertise blindly in newspapers all throughout the greater Soviet Union to recruit their supply of women. These internet firms don't know the girls personally, and there is no filter to determine the following: 1. It's impossible to weed out the women of lower repute and weaker character. This isn't good. If there are women with purely selfish motives (interested in marrying a man for status to America only), there is no mechanism in place to remove these women out of their service. As long as the photograph looks like it will sell, this is the only thing that matters to most address companies on the Internet. The price is right, and so there is very little value being exchanged. 2. One single address of your Dream Girl will be sold repeatedly for profit throughout the world. In these services, men are in competition for the best looking photos, and just like in the U.S., many of these girls can potentially get jaded and spoiled by the excessive attention. 3. Many unscrupulous women will use this as an opportunity to extort money from their adoring suitors (This request is not at all unusual-- "My grandmother is having an operation. Can you help me out financially?"). 4. The addresses aren't necessarily current. Many of these women have already been matched and now live in another country, or have married a Russian man, or no longer live in the same flat than they did a year ago when they mailed in their photograph. The address companies don't care. Nobody will complain for this price. 5. Quite often, the girls no longer look anything like the photos that are posted on the Internet or in the magazines. It's not difficult to shoot an entire roll of film of anybody, and take 1-2 flattering shots. An average looking girl can look like a model if she has photos done professionally with a studio photographer. 6. Put simply, mail-order firms are just there for the quick kill. It's lucrative to have a good-looking glamour photo which these firms can sell ten thousand times without any obligation to their clients to help them succeed through this process. This approach is pure profit to them and explains why there are hundreds of these companies in this industry. This undertaking costs the most money in the long run despite feigning the hope that there is a chance that it may actually cost the least. Beyond the problems of taking an obvious leap of faith, most of the real obstacles of doing this without the support of an agency come after a man tries to book his trip overseas. 1. Flying to Russia isn't as simple as flying domestically. You need to have a travel visa to enter Russia, and to get the visa, you need an invitation. In order to get an invitation, you need to book a reservation at a Russian hotel on your credit card. Not only is this expensive, but you can't even bring a girl into your hotel room unless your date for the evening gets preregistered at the hotel. 2. There are pitfalls to traveling in Russia on your own which you can read about in many travel brochures, but the main problem is the language barrier. If you don't have an interpreter, you will struggle to survive, let alone communicate comfortably with your Russian girlfriend. 3. Each time you visit a girl in a select Russian city, you'll need an airline ticket, a visa for each Russian country you visit, accommodations, on top of interpreter expenses, transportation expenses, and most likely you won't meet more than one girl unless you're willing to travel to multiple locations. This means that it is "do or die" with your dream match. The minute you do meet your girl if the chemistry isn't there, or if she doesn't quite resemble the photo on the Internet, then you're in big trouble, unless you have some alternative plan. If you have other girls to go visit, then you will incur all of the same expenses you incurred to visit the first girl. The best cost scenario if everything goes exactly as planned might be $1500, and there is normally less than a 10% chance of that happening. For every 1 for 1 love at first sight match that works out without any snafus or disappointments, there are another 10 or more that don't result in instant attraction and permanent compatibility. Buying addresses in an effort to save a buck preys upon the ignorance of single men who think meeting Mrs. Right on the free market is easy. If you really want to save a buck...don't get married. It can be, but only if you take advantage of a professional agency who has already done all of the necessary legwork-- namely,, to weed out thousands of unworthy applicants enabling each client may use his time wisely and efficiently meeting sincere, beautiful women who would make excellent lifetime partners. TOUR COMPANIES: ------------------------------ In an effort to offer some type of support to single clients in this growing industry, many overseas tour companies have cropped up in recent years. The most notable ones, beginning with the letter A, and with the letter E, offer tours to Moscow, St. Petersburg, and Kiev. The main problems with using this approach to finding Mrs. Right are the following: 1. The women are not screened. Again, they are invited from everywhere, and arrive via trains generally after travelling sometimes for over a day or two. Because the women are overnight visitors, a man can match up with a prostitute and never know it until he's already brought her to the States and unknowingly married her. 2. There is an air of desperation. This is not one-on-one dating. Hundreds of women are assembled together in the same room to be perused over by a handful of men. For the same reason people usually don't meet their wives in local bars or taverns, this "meat market" environment just creates an unnecessarily competitive environment making it unclear about the sincerity of any individual girls. 3. The women leave shortly after the socials. If a man wants to pursue a potential match, he must get on a train and follow his date home and miss the rest of the socials. This is highly inefficient. Because the women generally leave after one of the socials is over, it's not possible to have a few days of one-on-one appointments immediately afterwards because the women are now inaccessible. 4. Areas like Moscow, St. Petersburg, and Kiev are large cities, and the lifestyles are much more fast-paced. These ladies in general are very cosmopolitan and aggressive, and less likely to be the "girl next door" types who inevitably make the best wives. USING A FULL-SERVICE AGENCY ---------------------------------------------------- A full-service agency can do all the legwork to ensure quality, availability, selection, and a comfortable and supportive atmosphere for one-on-one meetings. By being in the same city of Tver for five years, Lifetime Partners has a fully-staffed organization which is comfortable for the ladies to participate in, because they live close by to the LP office. The ladies of Tver are family-oriented, sincere, traditional-minded, and stunningly beautiful. They generally live at home with their parents, as they can't afford to live out on their own. As a client, you will know a great deal about the character quality and background of each potential girl that you date before you actually meet them. All of the ladies have a photo album, a video which is available in the U.S., and a personal profile posted on this Web Site. The women will all be available for E-Mailing directly from our Tver office, and our staff provides English translations when necessary for all of our clients who are LP members. Any client who comes to the city of Tver, which is 90 miles north of Moscow, is able to meet EVERY available girl in our program. Appointments are set in advance, so that each date is spaced out, and is assured that each meeting will be strictly one-on-one under comfortable circumstances. Each client builds a close bond with his interpreters who know many of the girls' personally, and work hard to help their personal client select a match that is most suitable to his personal needs. The Lifetime Partners process has resulted in over 345 marriages since 1994. Our reference list of satisfied couples is the most extensive that now exists in this industry.
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