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Gilly wrote:

Silvia Brandmeier: <<Is this man not funny? Frightening other people and blame
them that they act like frightened people? Harrassing and stalking people and
dig out the only little thing he can find: a frightened person saying "Stay
away" very clearly. Is he really not aware that the text he quotes to each and
every person who like to hear it or not is a warning for someone to come to the
doorstep, nothing else? I think he knows, but he seem to think that he looses
his face if he staps back from his behaviour. What can we do to show him that
there is a way back to life, but not as long as he goes on like this?>>

Evelyn: <<As Theravad so aptly put it, he wants to envision himself as a corpse
on my lawn.   I on the other hand just want him to give up his obsession with
me.>>

Gilly: <<How to help Tang?  Ignore the poor conflicted creature and let him
figure out his own stuff as free of outside distraction as possible.  It's
obvious that the attention is a great part of his attachment.>>

Excellent, Gilly! Leave him alone to writhe in his own pain, sick puppy that he
is. He'll choke on his own vomit. Then he'll lay as a corpse on the lawn.

Ignore the poor conflicted creature and let him figure out his own stuff as free
of outside distraction as possible.  It's obvious that the attention is a great
part of his attachment.

Let us forget our obsession with him. Then he'll step back from his behaviour.

Tang Huyen