🚀 go-pugleaf

>From: debstar40@aol.com  (Debstar40)

> Summer
>has my last name but that loser Frank is on the birth certificate as father.
>

<B>  Ok (deep breath) - that is actually a good thing.  First off - my best
wish for your family is that Frank and Kim pull together, start moving ahead,
get their lives straightened out and live happily ever after.  So don't take
what I'm about to say as wishing this on them.

It's no secret that I've been fighting my loser ex in court for 2 years now
trying to get support (7th hearing should be coming up soon).  If (and I'm
saying IF) Kim and Frank ever call it quits, the fact that he has been named as
Summer's father from the beginning (not that I'm saying there's any reason to
think otherwise) could help Kim out.  In my situation, he never disputed that
he's her father (not a chance he ever could), but I know that some men will try
that to get out of paying support.  And while a simple DNA test can remove any
lingering doubts, it can sometimes take months and months to get the court to
order it, get the test taken, get the results, go back to court to get a
decision, etc.  If you can skip all that mess, it'll get Kim assistance a lot
sooner. 

Right now, I'm getting half of my ex's unemployment check every 2 weeks, lol. 
The court order is STILL at $50 a month.  I must say though, I've gotten the
more regular payments from him since he's been on unemployment than I have
since I left him.

I know a thing or 2 about losers :(