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Article #320Re: Obnoxious Co-worker Rant
From: Boltmom2000
Date: Thu, 28 Aug 2003 20:35
Date: Thu, 28 Aug 2003 20:35
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3 words. What a Bitch! =) >From: ravenraingoddess >Hi gang! We've all had them, haven't we? People we see practically more >than >our families, who we can't stand. Right now, I work with one of the WORST. > >She's much older than me, about 52. She has never had kids, and was the only >girl in the family, so she became very set in her ways. Sure, everyone is >like >that about some things, but this woman is insane. She knows her job >description to the letter, and WILL NOT alter anything in any way shape or >form. She does all the accounts payable, which means she writes checks. >Whenever we get paid on a large job, she will then write the checks for the >subcontractors on that job. Now, sometimes, we will get a partial payment, >so >naturally the question of how much we should pay the subs comes up. She >won't >ask the project engineer. She has me call upstairs, ask them what they want >to >do, and report back to her so that she can write the check. WTF. I mean, >SHE >is the one who needs to know how much to pay them, right? It's not in her >job >description. But, OK, she's been here 9 years to my 10 months, so I'm not >going to argue the little dumb stuff. > >She's insanely nosy. If you tell her one little fact about yourself, it >turns >into an interrogation. Consequently, I've avoided talking to her as much as >possible. > >We are both supposed to answer the phone, and prepare whatever the engineers, >etc. need mailed. This is a shared duty. I am less busy than she is >usually, >so I answer the phone more and do more of the mailing. Not a big deal, as >I'd >rather be busy than bored. And when it's super quiet (like today) I work >ahead, then go online. Right now I'm about 2 weeks ahead on all my reports. >I >don't know if it's because I have so much less to do, or if she just likes to >piss away a whole day with a single task. > >Well, yesterday, I snapped. It started in the morning. I was answering the >phone, and also working on entering all the equipment we'd used for the last >2 >weeks into our system. I had over 100 pages of time sheets, with roughly 4-5 >pieces on each one. Each is a separate transaction. So, I'm busting my butt >to get this done, and she will NOT answer the phone. There were a couple of >times I let it ring 3-4 times, she completely ignored it. Ok, fine. Maybe >she >has a sore throat, or a bad headache, although it would be nice if she'd tell >me that. > >Then lunchtime came. We are each allowed a half hour for lunch. I go at 12, >she goes at 12:30. So, I ate at 12, and at 12:30, she said, I'm going to run >out and get a sandwich. She is back in 10 minutes, and says that she's going >upstairs to eat. I've never seen her do that. There's a conference room with >a >TV up there, but nobody really bothers with it through the day. I mean, for >as >short of a break as we have, why try? So then I'm thinking maybe she is >having >some kind of family crisis, I know her father's been ill, maybe she wants to >be >alone, or needs to make some phone calls. Ok, fine, not a problem. > >1:00 - no sign of her. 1:30 - no sign of her. I went to our boss finally at >1:45, and said, I'm not trying to tattle or get anyone in trouble, but I >think >something's wrong. She's been up there an awful long time. He replied that >he'd noticed too, and he'd go up & see what was going on. Well, his phone >rang, and he was tied up for a bit, and at 2:00 she come strolling back in. >Not knowing what was going on, I didn't say anything to her. She sat down at >her desk, and within 5 minutes, another woman from a different department >paged >her & said "They're showing it!" > >At this point, Barb ran BACK upstairs. Still leaving me to cover the phone & >try to finish what I was working on. Here, the other woman's niece was on >MTV >for something, and the 2 of them had sat upstairs all that time watching for >her. Barb came back down after 10 minutes. > >Some crisis. But, it's not my place to say anything - our boss knew about >the >extended lunch break. So, I am back to working on my massive report, and I >can't get the numbers to balance. I'm going through 100+ pages, comparing >them >to both a computer printout while calculating them on an adding machine, with >a >thumping headache. The phone rings, and of course she ignores it. So I take >the call, and after hanging up say: Just out of curiosity, is there a reason >you're not answering the phone today? > >She replies that she's not answering the phone because she is busy for 8 >hours >every day and I play online for 8 hours a day. WHAT?!?! Also, she says >since >I always get the phone, she may as well not bother. > >Fortunately, just then, the HR director (he and the controller are our >immediate bosses, jointly) stuck his head in, just as I said "So, you will >not >answer the phone anymore at all?" > >She went into her spiel again, and he heard the whole thing. So he said, >"The >phone is a JOINT responsibility. If one of you doesn't get it by the 3rd >ring, >the other one should. End of discussion." > >So, small points gained for me. For the rest of the hour that I was there, >she >grabbed the phone on the first ring, every time. Was that supposed to hurt >my >feelings or something? Oh well. > >Today it got weirder. I came in, and our boss (the controller) said, "I >think >Barb's on vacation today and tomorrow." (((insert happy dance here))). Then >he added "but it's strange, she didn't say anything yesterday, and she didn't >give me all these checks to get ready to send out." > >Now, I don't know about other offices, but here, it's considered a courtesy >to >not only finish what you need to before leaving on vacation, but also to >remind >everyone that you won't be in, and see if they need anything before you go. >Barb did neither. She HAD apparently requested the time off a while ago, the >boss had it marked on his calendar, BUT - taken with the long lunch break, >the >refusal to answer the phone yesterday, the whole thing is weird. I know that >she's capable of having quite a snit, but still - do these seem like the >actions of someone who's planning to keep her job? > >I'm hoping (praying, and wishing fervently) that she isn't. When the >controller mentioned that she'd left things undone, I offered to help out in >any way I can, which is why I've spent about an hour & a half typing this, >lol. > Her job has always been just that - HER job. If I would ask her about >something that she does, her response is "You need to worry about your OWN >job." But today, the boss is explaining to me what she does, and having me >do >some of it. > >Anyway, everyone, cross your fingers that she's leaving, and that I can take >over her position too (at a substantial pay raise, of course!). Sorry for >the >long post, but it seemed that leaving anything out would cause other parts to >not make sense. > > > > > > > >
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