🚀 go-pugleaf

Andrea.... I know you are the "caretaker" in your family.... sometimes that
gets to be too much.  As the caretaker you are allowed to "demand" help when
you are feeling overwhelmed.

  My best friend is the caretaker in her huge, almost entirely disfunctional
family.  She could never say no.  She almost...well... she actually had a
nervous breakdown last year.  She has bounced back, after some help {major
help}.......  she has "asked/demanded" help from her 6 other siblings. 

I think you should ask....... very strongly, for help from your sister. Your
sister will take, take, take.... until someone knocks some sense into her.  She
doesn't have a care in the world right now....  Share some of YOUR cares....
and get her input...and what she plans to do about it.  Pester the hell out of
her!