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FIVE AT ONCE FOLLOW UP 

Don
de. distributed my recent update via the newsletter.  He suggested
that I post a message commenting on how I have dealt with the
difficulties of dating five women simultaneously.  That?s his show
Sunday at live365.com 5-6 pm Pacific time.

BACKGROUND I'm 47 years old and discovered R. Don Steele two years
ago, soon after my marriage ended.  I'm short, bald, and am not
handsome, wealthy, or famous. To be dating five attractive young women
(19-33) is a real achievement for me.

ETHICS Based on conversations and Cosmo polls, I believe that most
young women expect fidelity after you start having sex together, but
not before.  In the early stages of dating, I strongly imply that I am
seeing other women.  For example, when setting up a get-together, I
say things like "Let's see.  I'm tied up Friday and Saturday nights,
but could do brunch on Sunday or dinner on Monday.  How does your
schedule look?"

Currently, I'm only intimate with one of these five women. 
Unfortunately, that relationship is winding down.  If I start having
sex with one of the other four and if that relationship shows promise,
I'll drop all of the others.  I will not cheat or lie.

PRAGMATICS After each date or phone call, I take notes. Otherwise, I
would get confused about who did junior year abroad in Italy, whose
boyfriend works evenings, whose parents divorced when she was 12, etc.
 I review these notes prior to our next date.

I usually go out with each woman once a week, but never  more than
twice a week.  Considering that there are 7 potential dinner slots and
7 lunch slots, that's plenty of time.

None of these women know each other.  I met them in different contexts
(coffee shop, swimming pool, foreign language class, work, etc.).  I
worry more about bumping into someone who knows their boyfriends than
about them bumping into each other.

Cristobal

STEELE SEZ: NICE POST.

>I'm > short, bald, and am not handsome, wealthy, or > famous.  > To
be dating five attractive young women > (19-33) is a > real
achievement for me.

It's the result of: dedication, desire, discipline, patience,
perseverence, perspiration and ORGANIZimation. AFTER you have read and
accepted the Steel Balls Principles. HOWEVER . . .The biggest OBSTACLE
for men to follow Cristobal on the Shining Path is:

(1) Accept that you don?t know everything. This is impossible for 95%
of the males on the internet.

(2) Stop doing the same things over and over and over and over
expecting a different result. This is impossible for most males over
30 and for nearly all males over 40. It is absolutely impossible for
any male who believes he is smarter than everyone else no matter how
young he is.

(3) Learn something practical and that is based in reality not fantasy
to do instead of what you are doing. This cannot be done without
accepting that you don?t know what you are doing. About 95% of all
males are incapable of accepting that fact. This precludes QUICK FIXES
offered by all ?dating experts? other than R. Don Steele.

(4) Go out there and make some mistakes to learn from.  Then learn
from your mistakes.

(5) Begin to be successful taking small risks. Be successful over and
over and gradually take larger and larger risks as your confidence
from being successful over and over grows. Rinse repeat.

(6) Accept and practice Steele?s maxim Let It Happen, Don?t Make It
Happen by starting at the bottom of the beauty scale and the top of
the age ladder.

Of the 95% mentioned in #3 only about 50% make it past #4. Of those
only about 20% make it to and through #6.

Why? Because most men are absolutely unwilling to admit they don?t
know how to find, meet, talk, date and mate. They are willing,
however, to be lonely, desperate and horny until the casket lid
closes.

Are you ready to try something new? 

END OF SOAPBOX SPEECH

CRISTOBOL MY MAN! Well done. Your pearl hopper must have been full all
the time? Turning pearls into daters is a stumbling block more most
MOSB on this list.

Please post the conversion process and the steel balls principles
involved.

Becomes much more believable and achievable from you than from me.

No shit!

The MOSB on this list think, believe, feel, tell themselves that RDS
can do it but I can't!

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