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Article #157Re: BEING SHORT
From: Bigus
Date: Mon, 30 Dec 1996 00:00
Date: Mon, 30 Dec 1996 00:00
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In article <5a5epn$4s9@news.snni.com>, ming@server.snni.com says... > Why being short sucks. > > One of the harshest facts of life, is the fact that there is no built-in > justice in the world. There is no "level playing field." Some get a > head start, and others start out a mile behind the line. If you have a > disadvantage, you get used to it. You compensate for it as best you can, > and have a life. > > There is, however, always a nagging little daemon sitting on your > shoulder, saying, "why you?" We must be ever vigilant that we do not assign too much credit to a limitation for our problems. Only you can decide if you are. Being tall does not mean that I am rich, it does not mean that I always get the girl. I seldom do. I get plenty frustrated, but I cant always point out the reason why, so I must look that much harder. I have been told I had an attitude problem many times, especialy when I was younger, and especialy by shorter men. It seems you can't be humble or soft spoken enough for some people. For tall women it is a thousand times worse. Then when you are not as confident and knowledgable as everyone assumes you are, because you are tall, you get slapped down that much harder. I do not have a nagging deamon on my shoulder. I do not have any huge disadvantage over the average person. I have noone to blame for my failures but myself and I have no handicap to test me. I sometimes think is is easier if you can identify a handicap, real or imagined, that way you can compinsate for it. All things considered, I will stand on the hand I was delt. John
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X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: f43e0,9ee8a7b193df5629 X-Google-Attributes: gidf43e0,public X-Google-Thread: 10f731,5baab29f1c13eb92 X-Google-Attributes: gid10f731,public X-Google-Thread: f9306,9ee8a7b193df5629 X-Google-Attributes: gidf9306,public X-Google-Thread: f4c9a,9ee8a7b193df5629 X-Google-Attributes: gidf4c9a,public X-Google-Thread: f4f15,9ee8a7b193df5629 X-Google-Attributes: gidf4f15,public X-Google-Thread: f8a21,9ee8a7b193df5629 X-Google-Attributes: gidf8a21,public X-Google-Thread: 1095c1,9ee8a7b193df5629 X-Google-Attributes: gid1095c1,public X-Google-Thread: 10a5b2,9ee8a7b193df5629 X-Google-Attributes: gid10a5b2,public From: bigus@ix.netcom.com (Bigus) Subject: Re: BEING SHORT Date: 1996/12/30 Message-ID: <MPG.d30c7611489716c98976f@nntp.ix.netcom.com> X-Deja-AN: 206870072 references: <31160E70.3346@postoffice.ptd.net> <32935CAA.1891@Neversoft.com> <329A3AF4.176A@Neversoft.com> <57od8p$8k4$1@info1.fnal.gov> <58b7qu$lql@clotho.c2.org> <32B89AA3.5040@webspan.net> <Pine.SUN.3.94.961220094107.19685A-100000@access2.digex.net> <32C31715.40AB@radix.net> <32C324A5.29D3@who.net> <32C4B50A.4D40@herald.infi.net> <MPG.d2e66c828b770df989760@nntp.ix.netcom.com> <5a5epn$4s9@news.snni.com> organization: Netcom x-netcom-date: Mon Dec 30 7:36:25 PM PST 1996 newsgroups: dfw.singles,dfw.personals,de.talk.romance,dc.romance,houston.singles,houston.personals,fj.soc.men-women,alt.romance,alt.romance.chat,alt.romance.mature-adult,alt.romance.online,alt.personals,ba.singles,alt.romance.unhappy,alt.soulmates,ba.personals,chi.personals,la.personals