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On 30 Nov 1996 21:09:27 GMT, drienski@ix.netcom.com(Adrienne) wrote:

> In <57kuf0$rlu@boursy.news.erols.com> Fausto <skizm@erols.com> writes: 
> >
> m. But I just 
> >cant do that, it just isnt in me, I guess because I have attentin
> defecit 
> >disorder, which is the inability to focus for long periods, for me I
> just 
> >get bored to quickly and cant focus on my date except when it comes to
> 
> >sex. Sex seems to cure my ADD until sex is complete. Anyway women
> simply 
> >have no patience for me because I have no patience for focusing on
> them. 
> >So if you are short fat and ugly...dont feel to bad, we all have our
> own 
> >unique problems. 
> >once a woman senses my inability to focus on her she immediatly seems
> to 
> >feel rejected by me so she will in turn reject me. A very confusing
> and 
> >awkward situation developes. 
> >
> I have never heard anything about sex curing ADD!!  You may have to use
> stratagies to help you focus as this is the basis for building
> relationships. When I have been  rockclimbing I had to concentrate and
> focus for long periods of time--it almost sounds like this ADD is a
> good excuse for primarily sexual relationships.......

It's true though...It doesn't cure it but doing physical things is what
people with ADD do best.  I have ADD and I am always attentive to my
partner at first...then I get side tracked and bored with a relationship
that doesn't seem to me to be going where I want it fast enough.

Rock climbing I could do...video games I can do...even reading a book about
what interests me I can do.  Being 100% attentive to one person isn't in
the cards.