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Article #195Re: BEING SHORT
From: Nam Pham
Date: Thu, 05 Dec 1996 00:00
Date: Thu, 05 Dec 1996 00:00
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Robert Kutschke (kutschke@fnpspa.fnal.gov) writes:
> We have the technology ...
>
> I am 5'5'' tall. Let's see how often I don't get into the little
> black book only because of my height ....
>
> I logged into one of the computerized dating services which offers a few free
> days of browsing. I asked to see profiles of women who satisfied the following:
> - age 25-42
> - no children
> - does not smoke
> - Chicago Metropolitan area
> I put no requirements on race, religion ....
>
> There were 18 matches.
>
> Of these, 14 specified a minimum height of 5'7'' or more.
> 1 specified a minimum height of 5'6''
> 3 specified no minimum height
>
> Just for kicks, I released the requirements of non-smoker, no kids and the
> stats became:
>
> 33 specified a minimum height of 5'7'' or more
> 3 specified a minimum height of 5'5'' or 5'6''
> 4 specified no minimum height
>
Hahaha! Welcome to the faked reality. Please allow me to recount my story.
I contacted this person who described herself to have the look of a beautiful
actress. She listed herself as 5'2" and having a very cute figure [I don't
remember]. She however demanded a SWM with the measurements of an athelete
[5'10" - 6'2" "the taller the better", quote]. I was stunned; that's a foot
difference in height! So I wrote her to tell her that I really dig her figure
I'm very athletic (marathon, etc) but I fail in 2 of her demands [height
and race (btw she's an Asian like me]. I asked her why she's so short and
wants a man so tall and wished her good luck. I never expected her to
respond [I failed in 2 categories!]. But she did! She tried to explain to
me that she *used to be* 5'2" and now she's upto 5'4" [a 2" growth over
a couple of months!!] and she also said height doesn't matter as long
as I'm taller than her. Of course I'm taller than her. But I couldn't take
that kind of BS misrepresentation. So I hinted that in my reply and got
my smart ass chewed off!
That was my very first time trying to get a date via the cyber medium
and I'm still licking that wound hoping it heals soon. :-(
Can people be more up-front?
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