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dcmntrys wrote:
> I have to confess that I did that and I am female. I just didn't want
> to hurt his feelings. What do you suggest we say?

How about: 

No thanx? 

Giving fake expectation is much more hurting than even very nonpolite
ansvers.
  
I think useing fake phone numbers like that is OK 
_only_ if you are afreid of him becoming violent if you turn him down.
Vondering if one is not at home of if that was a fake number. 

You also can't use fake number aproach if one has your already, like
your frends boyfrends frend
or things like that. I know a woman how used to have "problems" with a
case like that.
She wasn't intrested, but didn't bothered to say she that to him, but
started complaining that
about her frends. I think that is even much more insultting that
terminating a relationship publicly.

It is also possible to give a fake phone number by accident after you
have
moved, this is especially true when drunk. Finding out
somebody/somebody's phone number is 
completely possible if you have enough data on that person, but people
usually don't do that becouse  giving an an errareous phone number is
see as a rejection.
I don't consider computer errors in digital operators a good reason of
not having a fair.

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How to find if a number is a fake? one good idea is to ask double check:
she gives
142 2387
ok. let's double check it. So it is: <keep it so she can't read that.>
143 5187 < change midle numbers but not so that there will be many same
numbers. Fake numbers
		never fake 3 same numbers in a row, becouse if they are not intended
to sound
		as ones that ar e made up.> 

if she ansvers yes. You can ask:
Since you didn't notice that I changed 3 numbers in that it 
is obiviously that you made that number up, so is also obivious
that you are not intrested in seeing me. Am I correct?