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 Ground Rules for an Effective Open Dialog of Beliefs


  1. The most important question to ask in a discussion of beliefs is. Is
there a possibility that what you know is wrong? If the answer is no, then
no discussion can take place, and an argument will probably occur if one
continues the subject. If there is a possibility, even the most
insignificant possibility shows the mind is not closed. This is a time to
share honestly from personal experience and available hard data. Never
attempt to convince anyone that they should believe as you do.

 2.  Honesty is most important, also allow others to have their view, being
able to keep strong emotion's in check if that view is in conflict with
yours. Always forgive the transgressor, a dialog of beliefs is a minefield
of connected thoughts and emotions. Remember its about a love for truth,
understanding and each other. At first just look for alignment not 100%
agreement.

 3. Respect others by not interrupting and keeping comments short and to the
point. Stay away from Stumbler statements and the FUD (Fear, Uncertainty and
Doubt) factor reactions.

 4. Keep judgments and comments about an other's view to your self. For the
purpose of the dialog, right and wrong are arbitrary and personal. Everyone
is entitled to there own views and beliefs. The only one that can change a
mind is the owner.

 5. When ones beliefs are challenged by the topic of discussion, try to face
the contradiction. The best progress is made when we support each other in
understanding by sharing a view and making distinctions between the similar
and different looking towards a unity in truth past individual perception.

 6. Relax and enjoy the process the subject is difficult we do not have to
make it hard by turning it into a competition.

 7. Remember these standards are to provide a safe environment for an open
dialog to gently keep us in check when we display our worst tendencies. If
there is something you need clarified or think should be added or modified
please e-mail me.

George
I bring good things to life!