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Article #200Re: This is getting REAL OLD!
From: Barbara Amero
Date: Thu, 18 Dec 1997 00:00
Date: Thu, 18 Dec 1997 00:00
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michelle@doherty-enterprises.mb.ca wrote:
: On Wed, 17 Dec 1997 05:00:10 GMT, admiral@ilos.net (Arthur D. Mira)wrote:
: >In man.general, admiral@ilos.net (Arthur D. Mira) wrote:
: >
: >=>NOW YOU'VE DONE IT JEAN!
: >
: >Damn! Too late Finch...oh well I did try and warn you.
: I agree. If you have read one Amaro post, you have read them all.
You must mean me, Amero. IRT your comment, you sound like the kind of
person who starts complaining about obscenity on page 10 of a 500 page
book, then reads all 500 pages.
Michelle, I thought of you last Saturday when I was out on the city
streets alone late at night and was hassled by 3 men hanging out on the
street. An unpleasant, unwanted, abusive experience. The kind you never
experience. But, of course, you have a male "protector" and seem right
some proud of it. And no, Michelle, I didn't go looking for trouble. The
same thing would likely have happened to you without a male "protector".
I did read your posts in the Rape Proclivity Among Males thread but
didn't getting around to replying. You are so thick in denial that it
would have been a waste of time anyway. BTW growing up with an alcoholic
parent who "ignores" you is abuse, contrary to your view. And I must
say that you lecturing me or whatever IRT my taste or lack of and there
being good men out there was right some offensive, given that I know some
of them -- including my 30 year old son and his father.
Your posts reminded me of the comments in a newspaper a few years ago
by a woman who'd been raped. "Ironically", she said, " the coldest
shoulders belong to other women." She said, that hurts but she
understands why. By casting off a victim of sexual assault, by making
her seem different or deserving somehow, another woman can wrap herself
in a cloak of security -- false security.
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X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: f7b9c,3c4c1ab155da9b1d X-Google-Attributes: gidf7b9c,public X-Google-Thread: 106cdd,3c4c1ab155da9b1d X-Google-Attributes: gid106cdd,public X-Google-Thread: f67a2,3c4c1ab155da9b1d X-Google-Attributes: gidf67a2,public From: ak955@chebucto.ns.ca (Barbara Amero) Subject: Re: This is getting REAL OLD! Date: 1997/12/18 Message-ID: <67af04$r9m$1@News.Dal.Ca> X-Deja-AN: 299259330 References: <3495677F.B562BCB3@common.net> <34968D01.30A6@marketing-wizards.com> <67601a$7k6$1@News.Dal.Ca> <3496A5C1.6FCC@netcom.ca> <34970FB9.1F95@NOicenterspam.net> <349759f4.19539414@news.ilos.net> <34975bfe.20061330@news.ilos.net> <3498d257.4548805@news.ilos.net> Followup-To: man.general,bc.general,ns.general Organization: Chebucto Community Net Newsgroups: man.general,bc.general,ns.general