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Article #119Re: The Dreaded Third Date Rule
From: Mark Wiley
Date: Tue, 28 May 1996 00:00
Date: Tue, 28 May 1996 00:00
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In article <4o53k0$3rv@fugue.clari.net> brad@clarinet.com (Brad Templeton) writes: >In article <DrpK9x.9Ao@ncube.com>, Mark Wiley <markw@ncube.com> wrote: >> >>Or it says that they like wearing a suit and tie (I don't, but tastes vary). >>Or it says that nothing else was clean, or they wanted to show you that they >>could look very presentable if they had to interface with customers. >>Or etc., etc., etc. >> >>I can understand not giving them points for wearing a suit, but having it count >>against them seems very unfair. > >Well, depends what you mean by "count against them." > >In reality what I mean is that the people who show up in casual clothes >get a point *for* them, because they had the guts to come in and know >they would impress with just their skill and not their appearance, or >because they researched the company enough to know we're not a suit and >tie company. That's a point *for* the person in casual clothes. Either they have guts, or perhaps they are just clueless about certain social graces, or as I said before, they just like wearing suits. Anyway, you can judge people anyway you want, but making any decision about a person based on any superficial characteristic limits the pool you have to pick from, which is not a good idea in my opinion. > >You can consider that a point against the person who shows up in the suit >if you like. Thanks, I will :-). > >You can usually tell right away that the person hardly ever wears a suit, >too. And so they made a special effort for you, but it doesn't count in their favor, how sad. I think at this point I will agree to disagree, and move on. Have a happy ... Markw
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X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: 10a1d2,17994a2c0807b5c8 X-Google-Attributes: gid10a1d2,public X-Google-Thread: 1082f5,17994a2c0807b5c8 X-Google-Attributes: gid1082f5,public X-Google-Thread: fbd31,17994a2c0807b5c8 X-Google-Attributes: gidfbd31,public X-Google-Thread: 110235,17994a2c0807b5c8 X-Google-Attributes: gid110235,public X-Google-Thread: fdc4a,17994a2c0807b5c8 X-Google-Attributes: gidfdc4a,public From: markw@ncube.com (Mark Wiley) Subject: Re: The Dreaded Third Date Rule Date: 1996/05/28 Message-ID: <Ds4HJx.6Ew@ncube.com> X-Deja-AN: 157209421 sender: usenet@ncube.com x-nntp-posting-host: darkstar.ncube.com references: <4no294$p2n@fugue.clari.net> <DrpK9x.9Ao@ncube.com> <4o53k0$3rv@fugue.clari.net> organization: /etc/organization newsgroups: ne.singles,soc.women,soc.men,ba.singles,soc.couples