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>yng@firefly.prairienet.org (Y Ng) wrote:

>:Alex Lam (lampas@alexlam.com) wrote:

>: It's perfectly okay that either the male or the female to initiate sex.
>: I believe either side should try to initiate sex if / when he/she feels
>: the needs to have it. And the other side should try to accommodate
>: whenever it is possible. 


>	alex, you must be a regular reader of Ann Landers or watching
>	too many infor-mercial TV on how to make a marriage like second
>	honeymoon. did you spend $29.99 on those tapes? :) try to put
>	the theory into practice is a different story. i do hope you
>	will find your self a dream mate who will accommodate your
>	sexual needs whenever possible. keep dreaming!!!!
>	when you become old and unable to erect and she wants three
>	times a day, can you accommodate?

I do not process, or have seen any of the video tape you mentioned. 
In fact, I don't even know who Ann Landers is! No, I don't watch that
much t.v.

I understand that it's not always possible to get it everytime you want it.
But, it doesn't mean it is impossible either. No, I'm not dreaming. But it
doesn't hurt to try either ! As long as either one of the partner does not
turning down the request/initiation on a regular basis, then I think they'll
be alright afterall.

Sorry. I'm not that old yet ! : )

It's all up to the involving parties.  It's entirely THEIRS decision in
how to approach sex.  But either gender do the initiation should be
fine.

When you get older, and when physical ability is becoming an issue,
then the couple SHOULD work out other means to satisfy the other
partner.  Again, they should both do fine IF they are both open minded
people, and are willing to try alternative means.

>: I believe some do, but please don't use sex as a weapon to get 
>: what you want; or you'll be degrading yourself to street walkers' level!

>	by the way, if you don't get it, do you masturbate?
>	would the partner feel offended?  i hope Joan would answer
>	this question.

I haven't encounter this problem yet.  
But I'll let you know when I do.

Hey Joan.  Where are you? : )
We need your med opinion here!

Alex Lam.
>: Alex Lam.




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