🚀 go-pugleaf

 However, if a man has a NICE car and a DECENT
>>>place to live, then my weird female instincts say "Ah! Now, he might
just
>>>turn out to be a wonderful father for my children." At the very
least,
>>>even if I'm not looking to have babies, I still feel re-assured that
this
>>>guy might not be the type to borrow money and be flighty.
>>

    There is something scary about the way a woman lays in waiting,
spining a web, like a predatory spider. Who else but a pasive predator
will weight my value according to some future plan for MY LIFE. It
seems a man is being valued solely as a tool of this already completed
vision. The man is not a participant, but a mere provider for the
accomplisment of some dream that was formed previously even to his
selection, totally in his absence. This women have decided long
ago(possibly with the help of their mothers) how our life is going to
be shaped. By doing this they(unbecomingly) are an important element in
the repressive regulatory side of western society.
    It is troubling how little self-criticism some woman may have. A
real gentleman on the other hand, is always sensitive to the needs of
others.