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Article #303Re: The Dreaded Third Date Rule
From: Cat Davidson-Hall
Date: Thu, 09 May 1996 00:00
Date: Thu, 09 May 1996 00:00
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In article <4mavg5$rl0@news.ccit.arizona.edu>, ruskinr@aruba.ccit.arizona.edu (Robert H Ruskin) wrote: > #1 Women want Sex. It has been said (correctly) that all men do is talk > about sex, that women NEVER do -- WRONG!! Women do nothing BUT TALK about > sex among themselves. Well I wouldn't say "do nothing but...", but yeah, women do talk about sex. > The difference is that they have different and deeper > fantasies about men, then men do about women. THEY DREAM OF HAVING A > VERY GOOD LOOKING MAN TO HAVE SEX WITH. I think you may not be dealing with a representative sample, here. When my girlfriends and I get together to talk about sex, whether or not a man is "very good looking" has precious little to do with whether or not we'd want to have sex with him. A sense of humour ranks highly, as does the ability to hold an enthralling conversation. Looks are pretty low on the wish-list. > #2 Women want Money. Frequently a woman who thinks she is good looking > will never, ever consider going out with a poor man. Frequently they have > a "income level" they want their man to have. They will go out with > someone who has money that can be spent on them for dinners, gifts, etc. Not true among my friends. > #3 Women want to be associated with Power. Either they want to dominate a > relationship, or they want a tycoon type person that will bring them into > "important social circles". Also not true among my friends. Perhaps in choosing to date "classy" women, you've inadvertently self-selected a population which is more concerned with money, power and appearances than with wit, intelligence, or true friendship. Cat -- "I wanted to know the exact dimensions of hell. Does this sound simple? Fuck you." - Sonic Youth "One day he's going to kill me, and he'll get away with it because he's O.J." - Nicole Brown
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X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: 1082f5,17994a2c0807b5c8 X-Google-Attributes: gid1082f5,public X-Google-Thread: fdc4a,17994a2c0807b5c8 X-Google-Attributes: gidfdc4a,public X-Google-Thread: 110235,17994a2c0807b5c8 X-Google-Attributes: gid110235,public X-Google-Thread: 10a1d2,17994a2c0807b5c8 X-Google-Attributes: gid10a1d2,public X-Google-Thread: fbd31,17994a2c0807b5c8 X-Google-Attributes: gidfbd31,public From: cat@brc.ubc.ca (Cat Davidson-Hall) Subject: Re: The Dreaded Third Date Rule Date: 1996/05/09 Message-ID: <cat-0905961123460001@cat.brc.ubc.ca> X-Deja-AN: 153920246 references: <4lioqo$pla@news.kincyb.com> <Pine.BSI.3.91.960430002226.1718A-100000@mv.mv.com> <Dqr8Cu.Kqz@world.std.com> <Pine.BSI.3.91.960502002845.8866D-100000@mv.mv.com> <4mavg5$rl0@news.ccit.arizona.edu> organization: BRC newsgroups: ne.singles,soc.women,soc.men,ba.singles,soc.couples