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Re: The Dreaded Third Date Rule

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From: John Cooley
Date: Tue, 07 May 1996 00:00
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Robert H Ruskin <ruskinr@aruba.ccit.arizona.edu> wrote:
>#1 Women want Sex. It has been said (correctly) that all men do is talk 
>about sex, that women NEVER do -- WRONG!! Women do nothing BUT TALK about 
>sex among themselves. The difference is that they have different and deeper 
>fantasies about men, then men do about women. THEY DREAM OF HAVING A 
>VERY GOOD LOOKING MAN TO HAVE SEX WITH.
>
>#2 Women want Money. Frequently a woman who thinks she is good looking 
>will never, ever consider going out with a poor man. Frequently they have 
>a "income level" they want their man to have. They will go out with 
>someone who has money that can be spent on them for dinners, gifts, etc.
>
>#3 Women want to be associated with Power. Either they want to dominate a 
>relationship, or they want a tycoon type person that will bring them into 
>"important social circles".


Robert, what you say above may be (more or less) true, I think you're
missing a key point here about a guy's personality.  That is, I haven't
found most women to be like: "Hey, you got money?  or look great?  or have
power?  Great!  Let's do the nastey, honey!!!!"  A guy's personality
also can be an integral part of the package that attracts or deflects
potential mates.  What good are looks, power, or money to a woman if you
have to deal with a total asshole to take advantage of these assets?

  - John

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From: jcooley@world.std.com (John Cooley)
Subject: Re: The Dreaded Third Date Rule
Date: 1996/05/07
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