🚀 go-pugleaf

-=Weezel=- wrote:
> 
> On Mon, 22 Apr 1996, Robert Becker wrote:
> 
> > >The key is being willing to tough out hard times with the cooperation of
> > >your mate - but knowing when things aren't working and being able to let
> > >go. (and not just throwing up your hands at the first sign of trouble and
> > >saying 'I quit'!)
> >
> > This brings up an interesting point:  every marriage has its down
> > periods.  How many of us hear about the good times a married couple
> > has?  I submit the bad times get aired because the people in the marriage
> > need to get their problems out.  The good times they don't share.
> >
> > What do you think?
> 
> I think you're partly right. I hear a bit about good things and a lot
> about problems between my friends. It seems they need other opinions about
> their relationship when they aren't making it work well... or perhaps they
> need you to provide the assurance that what they described is a good
> excuse to dump the jerk. Besides, if they're talking to a member of the
> preferred sex, many people use "oh life is so bad" as a baited hook to
> attract the next mate. Some women and many men are "white knights", ready
> to come running to save the maiden from the dragon! Unfortunately the
> maiden in this case often IS the dragon..
> 
> --L

jeezus krist, weezel--you called it rite on, good job, exactly what 
happened with my and my second xol.