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John Cooley (jcooley@world.std.com) wrote:

: Katy <bogbody@aol.com> wrote:
: >John, I know you said "many" women, not "all" or even "most," but I'm
: >going to disagree with you anyway. Women have sex urges. We really do. We
: >want to get laid. We want to have hot, nasty sex. We just want to like the
: >guy we're doing it with (usually!;-) ) I certainly wouldn't wait months!
: >In fact, if a guy didn't try at a fairly early date, the woman would
: >probably get a little concerned! Hell, she probably wouldn't notice
: >because she would have jumped *his* bones on the third or fourth date!
: >I've heard of this "third date rule" myself. I've never been burnt on it,
: >myself, because I usually know by the second or third date if I want to
: >try sex. Hell, maybe *I* want to know if he's "worth it!" (Sponge-worthy?
: >;-) )
: >-katy


: Katy, I always would only say "some" and not "all" because the nitpickers on
: the Internet usually find some technical gotcha otherwise.  That is, these
: people get caught up on the details instead of the general message being
: conveyed.  After a few hundred "gotcha on a detail" aurguments, I've learned
: to automatically insert "some" in *every* Internet statement I make just to
: keep the discussion going on more interesting tacts.
    
You've got that right.  There's another problem with the internet which 
makes argument even more difficult.  There's nothing at all which stops
a person from saying what he or she WANTS his or her behavior to be 
rather than what it really is.  That runs across the board.   There's simply
no reality check, so the biggest asshole in the world can go on about how
women don't like "sensitive men", or the biggest harpie can write pages on 
how man are intimidated by "strong women".  
In addition, with this newsgroup everyone knows what the "correct" answers 
are.  I'm waiting for the woman who will admit that she does like being
submissive, or that she has problems approaching men in real life (like 
we don't know any women who've said that).  Or a man who writes that he
enjoys paying for dates since it lessens his obigations later, since
basically he's only after one thing.       
I'm also waiting for the tooth theory to slip a few twenties under my 
pillow for all the baby teeth he missed when I was little.  It's never
going to happen.