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Re: The singles scene-does it have to be so confusing?

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From: Jeffrey Haber
Date: Thu, 11 Apr 1996 00:00
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jcooley@world.std.com (John Cooley) wrote:

>Patty, what you're describing here is a classic male dating strategy.  It's
>based on the part of my earlier statement that many women like to take
>months to get to know a guy first before deciding to go to bed with him.
>Since this is *FOREVER* in many guy's eyes, many guys date as many women
>as they can, meting out "memories" to each woman until she feels enough
>time has passed to give him a spin in bed.  That is, like a good chef, the
>guy works on many different meals at the same time.
>
>  - John


I agree with this strategy completely.

It also decreases the sting of rejection when it occurs.  This is 
especially important for younger men who are in the most challenging 
market for romance of their lives--quite often the women they'll be 
pursuing will be considering other men as well.


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Email:  mailto:haber001@gold.tc.umn.edu
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From: Jeffrey Haber <haber001@gold.tc.umn.edu>
Subject: Re: The singles scene-does it have to be so confusing?
Date: 1996/04/11
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