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Started by World Adventurer
Fri, 16 Feb 1996 00:00
Loved an INDIAN Girl Once - Seeking Another One in the US
Author: World Adventurer
Date: Fri, 16 Feb 1996 00:00
Date: Fri, 16 Feb 1996 00:00
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Yes, it's true. I almost married an Indian girl once that I knew in college, not too many years ago. The problem was that she was raised in India (Udaipur, Rajasthan) and her parents were very much the traditional Indian parents. They wanted their daughter to marry an Indian of the Jain religion, so on and so forth. They did not at all like the idea that their daughter was getting close to a white American like me. So one summer between semesters at school, her father sent her back to India with the story that her grandmother was sick. As it turned out, it was just a trick to get her to go back home, where the family was waiting for her to pressure her into choosing from one of the guys that they had arranged for her to meet. It's a long and crazy story that most people who have never had any exposure to Indian culture might not understand. Through her, I learned a lot about India and learned to admire Indian culture, Indian people, Indian religions, etc. It really is an intriguing culture. And to be honest, the 3 most charming women to ever cross my path have been Indian. I am hoping to meet another special one closer to home than India who might actually be the one that goes all the way. Who knows what might happen? It is worth a try. And maybe the next time won't encounter the parental obstacles that the last one did. I have been lucky to have had the chance to visit many places in my short 31 years of life on this planet. I have been to many countries in Asia, mostly in SE Asia, but I did finally make it to India a couple of years ago for a short visit in Bombay. One of the walls in my living room is entirely covered with paintings that I bought in India. Also, I have some artwork on my walls from Thailand and Taiwan. Some other places I've visited are Singapore, Hong Kong, Korea, and The Philippines. Closer to home, I've been to Jamaica a couple of times, and Mexico, of course, living only an 8 hour drive from the border in Dallas. While I am the over-educated, corporate finance type working for a multi-national corporation in Dallas, I am not a workaholic, by any stretch of the imagination. I work to live, not the other way around. And if I have any control over it, I am out the office door right at 5 o'clock. That way, I can live my life and enjoy it a little bit. Besides trying to study some for the CPA exam coming in May, I like to leave work at the office. Then I can spend my time outside of work, playing racquetball, rollerblading, going to movies, spending time with friends, etc. I also like going to movies, going to plays, fine dining, and an occasional night out on the town listening to some good rock and roll or alternative music. Physical fitness is definitely the "in thing". I don't mind breaking a sweat in a variety of ways because I like to keep a fit and trim 175 pounds on my 6'00'' frame. It's almost time for Holi and the DFW Hindu temple will probably have their annual festival. It should be a lot of fun again this year, complete with colored powder, Indian dancing, and plenty of Indian food. It should be nice. I can't wait to know more about you. Now you know a hell of a lot more about me than I know about you. If you would like to know more, send me an E-Mail and tell me about yourself. My E-Mail address is: mitchell@gte.net.
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