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[] orlando4@ix.netcom.com (CHARLIE BARTA ) wrote:
[] ...If we were honest during the early stages...

On Fri, 08 Dec 1995 00:41:19 GMT, jolee@cts.com (Shirley) wrote
[] Well, I never bother to lie....

[] Peggie Gaughan (pegship@ix.netcom.com) wrote:
[]... even the guys I dated who say they want total honesty find they can 
[] accept it, but not give it.

On Wed, 13 Dec 1995 21:30:06 GMT, schafer@netcom.com (Lenny Schafer) wrote:
[] ...Honesty indeed is a noble quality, but to expect a degree of it in others 
[] is to expect that they can be honest with themselves, let alone you...

On Thu, 14 Dec 1995 05:16:21 GMT, megazone@world.std.com (MegaZone) wrote:
[]... I'm still looking for a woman who can accept and give total honesty....

On 14 Dec 1995 03:32:27 -0600, rayward@fohnix.metronet.com (Ray
Ward-telecomrc.com) wrote:
[]...I've yet to meet a woman who can be as honest as I can.


There's a lot of room for misunderstanding in that word - "honesty".

If I wear makeup, would that make me dishonest?
If I listen, even though I'm bored with what you're saying, would that make me
dishonest?
If I tell you that I'm an expert on jazz but say something about it
that you don't believe, would that make me dishonest?
If I like Mexican food this week, but next week decide I don't like it and
want Chinese instead, would that make me dishonest?
If I don't tell you my deep hopes and fears and feelings, would that
make me dishonest?

So are you all looking for someone who is open?  Someone whose
view of themself (sorry, grammar-types) matches yours?  Someone
who's behavior is "settled"?  Someone whose view of the world and
"reality" matches your own?