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In article <4b06fd$oi8@news3.cts.com>, peaches@crash.cts.com (Georgia) wrote:

> In article <4an6qi$6j8@ixnews3.ix.netcom.com>,
> Peggie Gaughan  <pegship@ix.netcom.com> wrote:
> 
> >I agree.  After a lot of screwy relationships (no, not the way you
> >think <g>), I have finally learned to be real, not to be brutal about
> >it, but to let a person know just what to expect of me, what I like,
> >what I want out of life, what I can give.  Unfortunately, this usually
> >means my relationships are shorter-lived, because even the guys I dated
> >who say they want total honesty find they can accept it, but not give
> >it.  I know there are men out there who can do it; I'm not maligning
> >all you gents, but I haven't found one yet.  I'm still young, though. 
> >The quest continues! :)
> 
> I am not as young, but I still find that men can't handle the total
> honesty, nor the strong independant woman that our present culture
> breeds.  My relationships are equally as short-lived for all of the
> same reasons listed above.  I would really like to meet a man that can
> accept, as well as give, the "shoot from the hip" type of honesty
> that I try to live my life with.  Games tend of cause more problems
> that gain, so why play them?

too much honesty can cause quite a few problems.  if both people honestly
give their differing opinions on various topics and believe the other to
be constantly wrong the only option then is to prove the other wrong. 
then we have continual conflict and one-upmanship resulting in one of the
parties humuliated or both being unsatisfied with the result.

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