Re: DOES EVERY WOMAN PLAY HEAD GAMES???

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From: Seth Breidbart
Date: Wed, 20 Dec 1995 00:00

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Followups narrowed.  There's no reason to crosspost to dozens of
*.singles groups when posting to a worldwide one.

In article <dwhitman-1712951928130001@mx3p37.sdsu.edu>,
Citizen Kane <dwhitman@mail.sdsu.edu> wrote:

>too much honesty can cause quite a few problems.

It isn't likely to, though (it is more likely to bring the problems up
earlier, so they can either be solved or at least kill the
relationship quickly and relatively less painfully).

>  if both people honestly
>give their differing opinions on various topics and believe the other to
>be constantly wrong the only option then is to prove the other wrong. 

Why is that the only option?

>then we have continual conflict and one-upmanship resulting in one of the
>parties humuliated or both being unsatisfied with the result.

If that's how you choose to conduct your relationships, those are the
results you get.  You can have continual conflict without much
honesty, and lots of honesty without conflict.  Disagreement isn't
necessarily conflict, nor need it lead there.

Seth

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From: sethb@panix.com (Seth Breidbart)
Subject: Re: DOES EVERY WOMAN PLAY HEAD GAMES???
Date: 1995/12/20
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