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In article <4iv34o$grp@news-f.iadfw.net>, almason@airmail.net (Al Mason) wrote:

||jolee@cts.com (Shirley) wrote:
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||>orlando4@ix.netcom.com (CHARLIE BARTA ) wrote:
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||>>In <45tl3i$792@news.iadfw.net> "Scott C. McKissack"
||>><mckissac@airmail.net> writes: 
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||>>>jolee@cts.com (Shirley Lee) wrote:
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||>>I feel most people (myself sometimes included), play head games during
||>>the infatuation period of a relationship. It's like the peacock, we
||>>want to show off our bright side. 

I don't know how much people actually lie... but it is common to try to
put oneself in the best possible light. I don't think that is playing head
games. I would think everyone would be aware that that is how things go...
so what else would anyone expect?

||>>Once the plumage falls off and face
||>>one another's true nature we may have dug such a deep hole (lies),
||>>about ourselves that the only way out is to lie some more or brake it
||>>off. If we were honest during the early stages, we might feel
||>>inadequate and not pursue our desire to build a relationship. Know what
||>>I mean?

Well, the lying business is a problem. If you can't be honest from the
start... you shouldn't even be trying to have a relationship... You need
to go home and grow up a bit first.

But it is in no one's interest to be at your worst right off the bat
either. In fact, maybe the problem really lies in the notion that once we
are seriously involved with someone... we can just let it all hang out.
Maybe we should try to be more civil human beings in our relationships all
the time so that there isn't such a disparity. No need to be less polite
just because you know someone well.

||What was that ... 'Oh the wicked web we weave when at first we
||practice to decieve."   something like that.    
||
||        AM

Yep... your mom was right. : )

Suzan

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