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Article #238Re: Friends and Lovers(was ..HEADGAMES?)
From: Aqua
Date: Tue, 31 Oct 1995 00:00
Date: Tue, 31 Oct 1995 00:00
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mwoo@netcom.com (Margaret Woo) wrote: > I *do* know what it is like to have someone pretend to be my friend when > I was going through a complicated and emotional time of my life and then > try to get me into bed. He was a jerk. But, that doesn't mean I look > at every man I meet and think, "Well, he has the potential to hurt me so > I'm not going to be close friends with him--he'll just be a 'cafe friend' > to me." I take a look at each person and decide whether or not I want > that person to be in my life. Try it. It works. > > M I agree completely. I guess it's really just a matter of taking more time to decide whether to let down my guard than deciding to NEVER do so. Nothing wrong with hanging out for a while and waiting to SEE what someone's true colors are before getting too close. Some self-protection is necessary too much is a problem. Aqua
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X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: 10c68b,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gid10c68b,public X-Google-Thread: 110235,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gid110235,public X-Google-Thread: f8a21,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidf8a21,public X-Google-Thread: 10a5b2,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gid10a5b2,public X-Google-Thread: f4eb9,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidf4eb9,public X-Google-Thread: fbf61,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidfbf61,public X-Google-Thread: fb8b9,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidfb8b9,public X-Google-Thread: f4f15,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidf4f15,public From: Aqua <reif_andrea@tandem.com> Subject: Re: Friends and Lovers(was ..HEADGAMES?) Date: 1995/10/31 Message-ID: <475ns1$mol@gazette.tandem.com> X-Deja-AN: 118269639 references: <44k4to$ft8@nnrp1.news.primenet.com> <46r522$aj8@gazette.tandem.com> <470ehh$k3b@netaxscom> <4735pm$j3e@gazette.tandem.com> <mwooDHA409.KGr@netcom.com> organization: Tandem Computers Inc., Cupertino, CA newsgroups: phl.singles,phl.misc,atl.singles,ba.personals,ba.singles,dfw.personals,dfw.singles,houston.personals,houston.singles,ne.singles,nv.singles,nyc.singles,pgh.singles,sacramento.singles,sdnet.singles,soc.singles,vegas.singles