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In <45tl3i$792@news.iadfw.net> "Scott C. McKissack"
<mckissac@airmail.net> writes: 
>
>jolee@cts.com (Shirley Lee) wrote:
>>
>> b-dawg@ix.netcom.com (B-Dawg) wrote:
>> 
>> >On Mon, 09 Oct 1995 16:33:54 GMT, jolee@cts.com (Shirley Lee)
wrote:
>> 
>> 
>> >>It's not alway like that...there are a lot of nice people around
who
>> >>just want to have a nice, loving relationship...It's just a
challenge
>> >>to find them!
>> >>
>> >>
>> >>
>> 
>> > I'll say its a challenge. heh I've been lookin for years.. all
I've
>> >found were "Head Games".. heh
>> 
>> >     Bob Pierce
>> 
>> Well Bob...where have you been looking and exactly what were you
>> looking for?  Maybe you are using the wrong criteria in your
search...
>> Most people keep looking for the same thing...and can't figure out
how
>> they keep getting the same results.  Try looking for someone
>> different.
>> 
>> 
>I agree, we tend to always be attracted to the same types, I suppose
>we could make a consious effort to change that trait, however it is
>difficult since it is so much easier to find the people you are
>naturally attrcted to, whether they are good for you or not.

I feel most people (myself sometimes included), play head games during
the infatuation period of a relationship. It's like the peacock, we
want to show off our bright side. Once the plumage falls off and face
one another's true nature we may have dug such a deep hole (lies),
about ourselves that the only way out is to lie some more or brake it
off. If we were honest during the early stages, we might feel
inadequate and not pursue our desire to build a relationship. Know what
I mean?
                    CB