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Article #349Re: DOES EVERY WOMAN PLAY HEAD GAMES???
From: Steve Alexander
Date: Sun, 15 Oct 1995 00:00
Date: Sun, 15 Oct 1995 00:00
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In article <45ofa3$m9i@garlic.com> stz@garlic.com (Steve Zwaska) writes: >I think you'll find that people will live up to your expectations of them. If >your going into a relationship looking for a certain type of behavior (even >subconciously) I believe that you'll find it because you'll read things into >situations that aren't neccessarily there. Try assuming the best. If the >intentions of the other person are truly negative, they'll expose themselves in >due time. I have noticed in life that you can "try" all you want, and it will make no difference whatsoever. You can either *do* such and such or you can *try*. You can never do both. When you *try*, you are already aware that you are not *doing* whatever it is you are *trying* to do. In the example above, you may *try* to assume the best. In doing so, you are, in the same thought, admitting that you are not *really* assuming the best -- you are only *trying*. There is nothing wrong with *trying*, mind you. It just doesn't work. - Steve
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X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: 10c68b,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gid10c68b,public X-Google-Thread: 10a5b2,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gid10a5b2,public X-Google-Thread: fbf61,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidfbf61,public X-Google-Thread: f4f15,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidf4f15,public X-Google-Thread: f4eb9,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidf4eb9,public X-Google-Thread: 110235,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gid110235,public X-Google-Thread: f8a21,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidf8a21,public X-Google-Thread: fb8b9,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidfb8b9,public From: alex@cts.com (Steve Alexander) Subject: Re: DOES EVERY WOMAN PLAY HEAD GAMES??? Date: 1995/10/15 Message-ID: <alex.1084.3080B735@cts.com> X-Deja-AN: 117601397 references: <44k4to$ft8@nnrp1.news.primenet.com> <44mqdk$1and@fidoii.cc.lehigh.edu> <44n0m7$j36@usenet.srv.cis.pitt.edu> <44q5dg$fua@dobie.loop.com> <44uscd$jt3@ixnews2.ix.netcom.com> <457bvn$2in@ixnews6.ix.netcom.com> <45bj6r$iun@news2.cts.com> <45inb0$n organization: CTS Network Services newsgroups: phl.singles,phl.misc,atl.singles,ba.personals,ba.singles,dfw.personals,dfw.singles,houston.personals,houston.singles,ne.singles,nv.singles,nyc.singles,pgh.singles,sacramento.singles,sdnet.singles,soc.singles,vegas.singles