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Article #429Re: DOES EVERY WOMAN PLAY HEAD GAMES???
From: Steve Alexander
Date: Tue, 10 Oct 1995 00:00
Date: Tue, 10 Oct 1995 00:00
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In article <45e3hj$19l@transfer.stratus.com> fereira@isis.com (John Fereira) writes: > No, you don't just wake up one day and "I'm confident. I'm >happy." If you're doing this then you probably really aren't. If the >confidence and sense of happiness develops over time eventually you just >"know" and don't have to reinforce it by telling yourself that you are. >There is no such thing as "acting confident". Either you are or you're not. Maybe there is another way to look at confidence and happiness. What if confidence and happiness are both simply elaborate stories that we make up out of thin air? Is it possible that neither confidence nor happiness are *gettable*? Sort of like love. How would you go about *getting* love? These things might all be in the realm of stories. And maybe stories aren't something we can *get* like we get a car or a TV. It may give rise to a whole new perspective to consider confidence and happiness in this context. - Steve
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