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In article <r2xewgHwtWqX084yn@shore.net> stevep@shore.net writes:
>In article <45eii1$q3f@gazette.tandem.com>,
>Aqua <reif_andrea@tandem.com> wrote:
>
>> Can someone please define what is a head game.  Yeah, this is something
>> we all know but who can actually define what it is?
>
>> Someone starting something with you and then changing zir mind?
>
>Not that alone. That's fine.
>How about when someone you recently met through the Internet takes the
>time to write email to you the next morning telling you how much fun she
>had on the date, and then when you ask to see her again she says no?
 
That's not a head game.  It's possible to have fun on a date yet find 
that there is no romantic interest.  Although many people have different
definitions of what is considered a "date" often a date is used to see
if there is any romantic interest.  If that is someone's intent in the
first place then it is hardly a head game.  It's just that you expect
a romantic interest because *you* may have one.   The expectation that
she may want to see you again because she had fun on a first date and
you have a romantic interest is only in *your* head.

-- 
John Fereira
fereira@isis.com
Isis Distributed Systems - Ithaca, NY