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In article <45fmpu$un@transfer.stratus.com>,
fereira@isis.com (John Fereira) wrote:
> In article <r2xewgHwtWqX084yn@shore.net> stevep@shore.net writes:
> >In article <45eii1$q3f@gazette.tandem.com>,
> >Aqua <reif_andrea@tandem.com> wrote:

> >> Can someone please define what is a head game.  Yeah, this is something
> >> we all know but who can actually define what it is?

> >> Someone starting something with you and then changing zir mind?

> >Not that alone. That's fine.
> >How about when someone you recently met through the Internet takes the
> >time to write email to you the next morning telling you how much fun she
> >had on the date, and then when you ask to see her again she says no?

> That's not a head game.  It's possible to have fun on a date yet find 
> that there is no romantic interest.  Although many people have different
> definitions of what is considered a "date" often a date is used to see
> if there is any romantic interest.  If that is someone's intent in the
> first place then it is hardly a head game.  It's just that you expect
> a romantic interest because *you* may have one.   The expectation that
> she may want to see you again because she had fun on a first date and
> you have a romantic interest is only in *your* head.

Then why bother sending an email message at all? If you're not
interested any more, why do something that gives, IMO, the wrong
impression?

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