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Re: Meeting People

#479
From: Marty Stuczynski
Date: Thu, 05 Oct 1995 00:00
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>Answer:  You don't.
>And rejection is in your own mind.  Look at it this way....
>
>Suppose you meet 100 women.  Some you will like, some you won't like,
>and some you just won't care about either way.
>It's the same with any woman.  If she meets 100 men, she will like
>some of them, dislike some of them, and be completely apathetic
>to the rest.
>So, of the women you meet that *you* like, some will like you, some
>won't, and some won't care.
>Starting to catch on here?
>So if you ask out several women you are probably going to be rejected
>by a few of them because, as cruel as it sounds, they just don't
>like you or they just don't care about you.  Eventually, however,
>you are going ot ask out one person who really likes you, and that
>make all the rest worthwhile.
>
>Good luck!
>
>

 Bravo! Bravo! This is exactly correct! Hate to waste bandwidth but this 
makes so much sense that I had to acknowledge it. If only more posts were 
as true and pertinent. This is the whole dating-romance-love-sex thing in 
a nutshell. It's all a numbers game.

-Marty
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From: offcon6@netcom.com (Marty Stuczynski)
Subject: Re: Meeting People
Date: 1995/10/05
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