🚀 go-pugleaf

malloy@cris.com (Sean Malloy) wrote:
>nfilipov@ix.netcom.com (Natasha Filipovic ) wrote:
>>In <44q5dg$fua@dobie.loop.com> "M. Teresa Caldwell"
>><nightcrawler@loop.com> writes: 
>>>  However, I also wonder if men *like* being 
>>>treated like shit,
>>> because every relationship I've ever had has been god-awful. 
>>
>>No, Men *love* being treated like shit.  I've done some truly mean
>>things to men, and they still relentlessly kept on in their pursuit for
>>months, even years.  
>>The men I was nice to, on the other hand, dumped me within a few weeks.
>>
>>This leads me (and many other women) to believe that if you act like a
>>psychotic bitch (well, that's an extreme - simple indifference will
>>do), men will stick around.
>
>As for simple indifference, it's probably the perceived challenge to
>their ability to win a woman. But as far as _I'm_ concerned, either
>indifference or hostility is a sign that I'm wasting my time -- if I
>knock on a door and get no answer, I may knock once or twice more on
>the chance that they just didn't hear me the first time, but I see no
>reason to bloody my knuckles if no one is going to answer the door.
>And if they yank the door open and yell at me, I'm _gone_.
>


Okay, so we open the door demurely and all that...the 
problem is that the last hundred times we did that it was 
some dork peddling vaccum cleaners or they ran the other 
way.  I don't but that that is really what you want, or 
there wouldn't be nearly so many singles to post on here.