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In article <44u3or$3eg_002@nauticom.net.nauticom.net>, Rick Arnold <drmforge@nauticom.net> wrote:
>In article <44q5dg$fua@dobie.loop.com>,
>   "M. Teresa Caldwell" <nightcrawler@loop.com> wrote:
>>I'm female, and I agree that most women, the vast majority of 
>>them, do play head games.  I know this because I hear other 
>>women talking about it.  Why make a guy go see a movie (like 
>>"Boys on the Side") that he is totally disinterested in?  Why 
>>make a guy who doesn't like to get dressed up go to a place 
>>where he has to?  Why make all these demands?
>
>I feel some women do this in an effort to "bring out" what
>they would like to see in their man, regarding his feelings
>and emotions, which most women seem to feel man is lacking.

And then they would never want to go to some of the things that men go to
and see.  Kinda hypocritical... if she wants me to see "Boys on the Side,"
then she'd better be ready to come with me to see "Hackers." :)


>>other women very well.  However, I also wonder if men *like* 
>>being treated like shit, because every relationship I've ever 
>>had has been god-awful.  
>
>I tend to get along well with women who don't get along
>with other women, <g>. Yes, some of the boys enjoy being
>shat upon, and beg for more.

Not this man.  That's the difference between my current sweetie, and my ex
fiancee'.  My ex and I broke up shortly after I hurled her shit back at
her, whereas Nancy and I treat each other very, very right.  (Though I must
wonder, my ex was such a wonderful woman when we first fell in
love...something came over her that changed her like night and DAY...I
guess I'll never know, but God help me if that ever happens to me...)


>>because the guy decided to move 4000 miles away (without 
>>me, of course)...because his best friend lives there. I 
>
>Hm, to some friendship is less threatening than what is
>encountered in male/female friendship and the resultant
>relationship.

I've noticed that about guys a lot :(


>>guess his friend will introduce him to someone thinner and 
>>better-looking, albeit a bitch who complains constantly. 
>> I guess that's what men want.

Looks are unimportant.  I mean I do move my eyeballs in the direction of an
absolute BABE, but that doesn't mean I'm going to make moves on her (better
not! :).  If she's got a personality plus, that tends to magnetize me
faster...which really screws up my head whenever I would get nature's urge
to pursue a quick date-at-the-moment.  You can't do a personality check
in that time frame - not a good one, anyways.


>Some like those skinny bitches, some, including myself,
>prefer a bit more depth and personality to a woman. Of
>course, those skinny whining bitches can be tolerated
>if they have money and you lavish them with the attention
>they desire. It frequently seems to be a whoremoane thing
>with those skinny girls.

Kind of reminds me of the emotional vampire subset of the NICE GUY type.
Both should be avoided at all costs.


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