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Article #661Re: Meeting People
From: James C. Armstrong
Date: Fri, 22 Sep 1995 00:00
Date: Fri, 22 Sep 1995 00:00
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In article <43puv4$nvr@crl.crl.com> wkronert@crl.com (William Kronert) writes: >: In jest of course, but it is a serious issue. I really dont care for >: big group social activities and it sort of follows that an ideal >: companion doesn't either. The odds of us getting together are pretty slim. > This really is a interesting question. I don't consider myself >as reserved as this, but I am also not one for big group socials nor do I >feel very comfortable in this type of setting. I am sure there are many >who may also feel the same. > > So along those lines, what might be good ideas for people who >are not interested in large group social activities? Some ideas that >come to mind would be: (Taking this tv thing into consideration) Maybe a >movie club where a small group goes out on some regular basis to the >local movie theatre. I think one very important aspect is if you can >find a small group to hang around (rather then large socials), you meet >up with their friends and make friends with them as well. It has a snow >ball effect that atleast work very well for me when I moved into a >strange town one time and did not know anyone. What of the limiting case, where a person is not comfortable in a situation with three or more people; ie, someome who does well in a one-on-one, but ends up not doing well in a one-on-many environment? -- James C. Armstrong, Jr. | Some say the world will end in fire, james@sagarmatha.com | Some say in ice. jca@netcom.com | From what I've tasted of desire URL: | I hold with those who favor fire. ftp://ftp.netcom.com/pub/jc/jca/homepage.html
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X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: 10c68b,c8519196af01104 X-Google-Attributes: gid10c68b,public X-Google-Thread: fb8b9,c8519196af01104 X-Google-Attributes: gidfb8b9,public X-Google-Thread: f4eb9,c8519196af01104 X-Google-Attributes: gidf4eb9,public X-Google-Thread: 10a5b2,c8519196af01104 X-Google-Attributes: gid10a5b2,public X-Google-Thread: 110235,c8519196af01104 X-Google-Attributes: gid110235,public X-Google-Thread: f8a21,c8519196af01104 X-Google-Attributes: gidf8a21,public X-Google-Thread: fbf61,c8519196af01104 X-Google-Attributes: gidfbf61,public X-Google-Thread: f4f15,c8519196af01104 X-Google-Attributes: gidf4f15,public From: jca@netcom.com (James C. Armstrong) Subject: Re: Meeting People Date: 1995/09/22 Message-ID: <jcaDFBpFp.E5F@netcom.com> X-Deja-AN: 110591483 sender: jca@netcom22.netcom.com references: <43p95t$bnv@panix2.panix.com> <43pn2v$90d@netnews.upenn.edu> <43puv4$nvr@crl.crl.com> organization: Netcom Online Communications Services (408-241-9760 login: guest) newsgroups: phl.singles,phl.misc,atl.singles,ba.personals,ba.singles,dfw.personals,dfw.singles,houston.personals,houston.singles,ne.singles,nv.singles,nyc.singles,pgh.singles,sacramento.singles,sdnet.singles,soc.singles,vegas.singles