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Re: Great Expectations (Thanks for the) WARNING!

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From: John Fereira
Date: Sat, 23 Sep 1995 00:00
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In article <4403ei$loc@newsbf02.news.aol.com> crys4210@aol.com (Crys 4210) writes:
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>In a way, it's like public speaking.......there's not many of us that look
>forward to it.  You just prepare as best you can, grit your teeth, smile
>and try and act comfortable.  If you keep trying, you get better at it. 
>It's just too bad that we don't have an equivalent to
>"Toastmasters".......like "Datemasters"!  
  
Crys makes an interesting suggestion here.

I am not familiar with all the various dating services out there but 
all of them basically just accumulate a number of members and then provide
some sort of matching service that is supposed narrow down the field so
you can find the perfect match.  Wouldn't a dating service be much better
if they went a step further and provided guidance on how to approach that
potential mate so that the chance for sucess were greater?  If a dating
service were to offer a seminar to their members where they could practice
those social skills (like Toastmasters does) I wonder how many people
would attend.  Now, I'm not talking about some sort of Speed Seduction
thing but a something like a weekly role playing exercise where some of
the members could actually practice their conversational skills.  The best
part about such a service would be that even if they didn't find a match
through the service, the skills that they have learned through the seminar
could be applied in any social situation.

-- 
John Fereira
fereira@isis.com
Isis Distributed Systems - Ithaca, NY
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From: fereira@isis.com (John Fereira)
Subject: Re: Great Expectations (Thanks for the) WARNING!
Date: 1995/09/23
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