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Article #152Re: The Correct Challenge (WAS: Re: NOW challenge to PK)
From: Carol Ann Hemingway
Date: Thu, 09 Oct 1997 00:00
Date: Thu, 09 Oct 1997 00:00
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In <343C4E5B.2B070F33@seas.gwu.edu.NOSPAM> Alan Davis
<adavis@seas.gwu.edu.NOSPAM> writes:
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>Carol Ann Hemingway wrote:
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>> In <343BD1C1.BE6D6213@seas.gwu.edu.NOSPAM> Alan Davis
>> <adavis@seas.gwu.edu.NOSPAM> writes:
>> >Carol Ann Hemingway wrote:
>> >> In <61eodj$g8m$1@Mars.mcs.net> karl@MCS.COM (Karl Denninger)
writes:
>> >> >>>>
>> >> >(edit)
>> >
>> >> --------
>> >> The use of Jesus Christ to draw a crowd isn't a new tactic.
>> >> Of course, more ministers will be getting involved in this
>> >> conversation, especially minsters who have been preaching
>> >> to egalitarian couples and their families. Yes, I agree
>> >> with you that this movement is more political than
>> >> religious.
>> >> --------------------
>> >This is an agreement of the uninformed who think they know more
than> the>people who make their own statements of
>> >their objectives. Lefty refuses to talk to a
>> >PKer, or his wife, or their kids-where the
>> >measure of any benefit or detriment has
>> >meaning. It has no meaning, Lefty, in this
>> >fantasy world of yours where you perform
>> >character assassination of people whom
>> >you've never met nor even spoken to.
>>
>> -----------
>> I have not sullied the "character" of anyone. Surely
>> you're not refering to my refusal to speak (which is my
>> right) to a person who claims her authority is thru her
>> husband?
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>Nope, only that your refusal speaks to your
>>choice to remain ignorant. You did once post something
>to the effect "I guess you would have to check with
>the wives."
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That's true. I was refering to the discovery
of their reasons for wanting an inferior position.
I suspect it has more to do with financial security
and the protection of family and patriarchal
social status than it does with anything else,
but if I wanted to discover WHY they choose in-
feriority, talking to them would make sence; I
don't have much interest in why they choose it.
I only have interest in the rules of the game and
what that might mean to women who choose to be
equals.
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>> I would have no business speaking about PK
>> to a person who didn't have the authority to talk about
>> it. Isn't it better to go to the source rather than
>> get information second hand? After all, those who aren't
>> Promise Keepers really don't have the right to speak for
>> those who are.
>> -------------------
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>Pkers have disagreed with you ad nauseum,
>>you post fantasies about what you *think*
>they are doing, rather than what they *say*
>and *do*.
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They are perfectly within their rights to disagree.
I have no problem with that. What they say and
do has, in itself, placed women in a position of
subordination. To borrow a phrase from Covey,
it's in their "mission statement". :]
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>> >> >>I see a>>bunch of men who mean well, but are not going about it
in>> >> the right way.
>> >> --------------
>> >> What makes you think they "mean well"; perhaps most of
>> >> these men are simply dissatisfied with their role in
>> >> life. Perhaps they long for the kinds of adulation
>> >> their fathers had ....as soldiers, as patriarchs.
>> >> ---------------------------
>> >>
>> >Your honor! I object! Calls for speculation!
>> >(as do all your posts on this subject, Left)
>>
>> In your opinion.
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>You've posted no facts, only your guesses.
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>> >> >>They are leaving too many people out by depending on
Christianity as> their>>source.
>> >>
>> >> -----------
>> >> That's true. My wise old grandmammy used to tell me;
>> >> "whenever all men get together, women are oppressed, because
>> >> then there's no one left to preside over". :]
>> >> ---------------------
>> >>
>> >May I go out on a limb here,and guess that your grandmammy said
>> >no such thing? May I suggest as well that>> >the above is just a
Leftyism based on >fear and sexism? May I also suggest that
> >a bunch of men put together the Bill of Rights you hold dear? May I
>> also suggest that> >your bigotry against 'all men' prevents you
>> >from seeing the good in the world?
>>
>> -----------
>> Indeed you may! That's your right of free speech that
>> a marvelous group of men drafted in an effort to make
>> sure that INDIVIDUAL RIGHTS (rather than family rights)
>> were maintained, and to create a separation between
>> church and state (rather than having one sect rule, as
>> had happened in England).
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>Separation of church and state appears nowhere in
>the Constitution. It first appeared in a letter from Thomas
>Jefferson to a New England Episcopal bishop. The Supreme
>Court talks about the 'establishment' clause, not the 'separation'
>clause.
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I'm glad you know where to find it. Now what?
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>
>> So, you see, wonderful men
>> do indeed exist. In fact, my number one chosen role
>> model is a dead black wonderful man....Thurgood Marshall.
>> ------------------------------
>
>Good for you. Mine is Mother Theresa.
>
>> >Pity.
>> ---------
>> There's no need to pity me; I'm quite content, and
>> joyful in my approach to life.
>> -------------
>
>I'm glad for that. The pity is your outlook
>>is confrontational, rather than cooperative.
>
>> >> >(edit)
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Would you expect a free black man in Africa expect
to cooperate with those who wanted to enslave his
friends and relatives. Or, would you expect con-
frontation?
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>> >The only reason I care about what you
>> >think about other people's problems, is
>> >that your such a prolific poster of
>> >putrid perjurous propaganda, which must be
>> >shown the light of day.
>>
>> -----------
>> Gee, I would have thought a Christian would have
>> been more concerned about my soul burning in hell.
>> Well, at least you're now being honest.
>
>Hopefully, I won't ever be dishonest.
>
>> What happened
>> to all that pity you had, just a paragraph ago. Easy
>> come....easy go.
>
>Like the wind, indeed.
>
>> > You are also forgetting that there is
>> >no such thing as 'full memberships' in PK;
>> >no rights, no privileges, only promises
>> >and duties that amazingly try to correct
>> >the problematic male behavior feminists
>> >have labeled them with for years. Lefty's
>> >trouble is, this correction is not done on
>> >*HER* terms, i.e. in court.
>>
>> ------------
>> There's no need to go to court for this one. The
>> PK message is being heard loud and clear, and just
>> for what it is.....the last death rattle of patriarchy
>> clutching and grasping for air. As for problematic
>> male behavior, I haven't personally witnessed any...
>> there's not one man in my life I have any need to
>> change; they're just great the way they are; of
>> course, none of them have any desire for me to
>> submit; after all, they are my friends.
>> ------------------------
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>'This one' being the correction of men's sexistbehavior; a position on
>which most feminists>and PK take a stand. PK-through loving
>correction, feminists, through fines and jail>terms.
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Does that mean that "loving correction" is going to
replace jailterms for men who abuse, beat and/or
kill their wives? I mean, they may have been justified
if their wives refuse to submit.
Lefty
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