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Article #27Re: NOW challenge to PK
From: Carol Ann Hemingway
Date: Mon, 20 Oct 1997 00:00
Date: Mon, 20 Oct 1997 00:00
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In <344A8970.4556FC4F@seas.gwu.edu.NOSPAM> Alan Davis
<adavis@seas.gwu.edu.NOSPAM> writes:
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>Carol Ann Hemingway wrote:
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>> In <3447CF3B.E5E714C9@seas.gwu.edu.NOSPAM> Alan Davis
>> <adavis@seas.gwu.edu.NOSPAM> writes:
>> >Daniel B. Holzman wrote:
>> >> In article <3446E897.70081BCB@seas.gwu.edu.NOSPAM>,
>> >> Alan Davis <adavis@seas.gwu.edu.NOSPAM> wrote:
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>> >> >> No, sorry, PK theory has the man submitting to god and the
wife
>> >> >> submitting to her man.
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>> >> >You have bought into Lefty's myth. PK has no such "theory."
>> >> >How long have you been studying PK?
>> >> >What are your references?
>> >> >I've offered quotes, references, and people
>> >> >to talk to to refute this.
>> >>
>> >> I need look no further than their own writings:
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>> >You need to look further into these writings. Whatyou have
presented>> includes too>much "....">You present this "leadership" as a
henious>> >aspect of interpersonal relationships, which it>is not. If
leadership>> is a poor thing, let's start at the>top and get rid of
the President,> Vice-President,>Speaker of the House, etc.
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>> Leadership that is only male, precludes female leadership;
>> how hard is it to understand that? Last time I looked, it
>> was still possible to have a female president/vice.
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>Leadership is gender neutral. Wise people become leaders,
>>or know when to follow good leadership.
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The question then becomes one of whether or not WOMEN
in the PK mindset can ever become "wise people".
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>> >Mr. Evans takes on male complacency, and incites
>> >them to *spiritual* leadership. This is something you
>> >have no concept of, since you used those "........"s
>> >to take out parts you don't understand.
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>> Leadership is a new code word for male supremacy?
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>You're still making up nonsense.
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Are all the leaders in PK male? That's not
too difficult, is it?
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>Leadership is gender neutral. Wise people become leaders,
>>or know when to follow good leadership--regardless of gender.
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So how many female group leaders are now installed
in PK?
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>> >> ". . . sit down with your wife and say something like this,
"Honey,> I've> made a terrible mistake. . . I gave up leading this
family, and>> I> forced you to take my place. Now I must reclaim that
role.".>> > . . I'm not suggesting you ask for your role back, I'm
urging you to> >> take it back . . . there can be no compromise here.
If you're going>> to> lead, you must lead . . . Treat the lady gently
and lovingly. But>> lead!"
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>> >>
>> >> -- Tony Evans, co-editor of Seven Promises
>> >> of a Promise Keeper in "Spiritual Purity" chapter of
>> >> Seven Promises of a Promise Keeper, p. 79-80.
>> >>
>> >> ". . . I believe that feminists of the more aggressive persuasion
>> are>> frustrated women unable to find the proper male leadership. If
a>> woman>> were receiving the right kind of love and attention and
>> leadership, she>> would not want to be liberated from that."
>> >>
>> >> -- Tony Evans
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>> >His opinion.
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>> Yes, the opinion of ONE PKer....only one. :] That
>> is what started the wearing of veils in Iran, and the
>> methods used by Taliban.
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>Bunk. Strawman argument. Can you think of
>no other argument than to try to link those who
>disagreee with you to criminals? Have you run out of
>knowledgable things to say?
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Those who support the Taliban are NOT criminals; they
are LEADERS....male leaders who refuse to allow women
to compete in the workplace or school on an equal level
with men. Whatever makes you think they are criminals?
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>> >Before you condemn it, read it.
>> >Who are these "more aggressive persuasion" feminists,
>> >note he didn't say *all* feminists.
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>> Why would he have to? The idea that rebellious women can
>> be "cured" by a good **** has been expressed since
>> the dawn of time. This is hardly anything NEW. The
>> only difference is that the **** is spirtual rather
>> than physical.
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>Please tone down your language.
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No.
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>There are gentlemen and ladies present.
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If they are adults, they will have to get used to the
fact that there are all kinds of words in the world;
in that regard, the grown-up thing to do would be to
get on with it. If you're a child you can avoid all
sorts of language and simply pretend language you don't
like doesn't exist...in the same sense that you can
pretend PK is about equality.
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>Besides, the conversation was with respect to
>defining who these aggressive feminists are.
>I'm sure not all women are "aggressive feminists."
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>> >What do you have against love, attention, and leadership?
>> >I do not feel oppressed, myself, when I follow the leadership
>> >of our Boy Scout Troop Scoutmaster. Nor do I feel
>> >oppressed when I follow my wife's leadership. Are you for
>> >anarchy?
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>> Is it the PK stance that you must follow your wife's
>> spiritual leadership in the self-same way she must
>> follow yours, or are roles assigned. (I already know
> the answer, but I'm not sure you're willing to admit
>> it). Equality is not anarchy.
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>Stop guessing what I might or might not say.
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>Your stereotyping will only lessen any good points
>you might have. I've told you that there is no
>"mandate" for one to follow another. The only mandate
>is to follow the wisdom of God. Both men and women have
>been called saints. Wisdom is gender neutral, though in
>several books of the Bible it is referred to as "she."
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I have asked you a direct question. You have failed
to answer.
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>> >> "Don't you understand mister, you are royalty and God has chosen
you> to be>> the priest of your home?"
>> >>
>> >> -- Tony Evans, co-editor of Seven Promises of a Promise
>> Keeper in
>> >> The Progressive, August 1996.
>> >
>> >A priest is a servant. What's your problem?
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>> The priest gets the duty of service and all the RIGHTS
>> that accompany the title. Trying to portray it only
>> as duty, is doing a disservice to those who want the
>> REST OF THE STORY.
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>Or to those who might make it up?
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>What RIGHTS do priests get?
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The right to be the spiritual leader in their homes,
at the exclusion of women in the same role. You still
haven't answered my question.
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>I suggest, none other than the right
>to choose to follow God. What other
>rights do you think that they have that
>frighten you?
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I need not be frightened about a group of men who
want the right to lord over women; that's nothing
new; it's as old as the bogeyman. You still haven't
answered my question.
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>> >> "The demise of our community and culture is the fault of
sissified>> men who>> have been overly influenced by women."
>> >>
>> >> -- Tony Evans, co-editor of Seven Promises
>> >> of a Promise Keeper in The Progressive, August 1996.
>> >
>> >An opinion, it has some truth in it.
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>> How is it possible to be "overlyinfluenced" by those
>> who comprise over 1/2 of humanity. Shouldn't that
>> huge group have just over 1/2 of the "say" in how
>> we conduct ourselves.
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>So are you saying that all women are feminists?
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No. I'm saying that all women have the right to
equal protection.
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>> >What are you afraid of here?
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Nothing. Empty "phallacy" only makes me angry...not scared.
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>> >> There was also the op-ed in the CHicago /Trib/ a few weeks ago.
It>> was>> written by a female minister who had a parishoner who became
a>> PKer. He>> stopped coming to Church. When she asked him about it,
he> told her she>> was no longer his pastor, because the PKers had told
him> that the proper>> order of things is "men lead, women follow."
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>> YUP
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>I disagree with him. He has committed the same order
>>of misinterpretation as NOW saying
>that women have the right to make false
>rape allegations.
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If that is the case, why aren't you supporting total
inclusion of women in the process? You still haven't
answered my question.
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>> >That man made a mistake.Of the many men who went to DC,>you would
not>> have to search very long to find a sinner with an incomplete or
>> >false idea or philosophy. Do you now>take this one mistaken fellow
>> and apply>it to millions?
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>> In the same way that a few Muslims make women wear
>> veils, having nothing to do with the listed precepts
>> of the religion, PK has their own agenda which includes
>> the submission of women. We don't buy what you're
>> trying to sell, a white-wash of bigotry.
>>
>> Lefty
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>Please stop with the comparisons of those whohold ideas with which you
do>not agree>to criminals. Your stereotyping lessens>the strength of
any other argument you might>make.
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To what court must members of the Taliban report viz a viz
their criminal culpability? BTW, you still haven't
answered my question. Perhaps you realize you can't.
Lefty
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X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: f5de8,c2790f16bb9117a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidf5de8,public X-Google-Thread: fe6e4,c2790f16bb9117a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidfe6e4,public X-Google-Thread: fdc4a,c2790f16bb9117a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidfdc4a,public X-Google-Thread: 10e835,c2790f16bb9117a8 X-Google-Attributes: gid10e835,public X-Google-Thread: 115ded,c2790f16bb9117a8 X-Google-Attributes: gid115ded,public X-Google-Thread: 15f5e3,c2790f16bb9117a8 X-Google-Attributes: gid15f5e3,public X-Google-Thread: 1082f5,c2790f16bb9117a8 X-Google-Attributes: gid1082f5,public From: leftylu@ix.netcom.com(Carol Ann Hemingway) Subject: Re: NOW challenge to PK Date: 1997/10/20 Message-ID: <62g3p3$5hj@dfw-ixnews6.ix.netcom.com> X-Deja-AN: 282016982 References: <61dror$2f2$6@gail.ripco.com> <34457DB2.31E3C519@seas.gwu.edu.NOSPAM> <6247oo$6eb$1@kira.peak.org> <3446E897.70081BCB@seas.gwu.edu.NOSPAM> <628enk$5i0@xochi.tezcat.com> <3447CF3B.E5E714C9@seas.gwu.edu.NOSPAM> <628kfk$4q6@sjx-ixn3.ix.netcom.com> <344A8970.4556FC4F@seas.gwu.edu.NOSPAM> Organization: Netcom X-NETCOM-Date: Mon Oct 20 12:18:27 PM CDT 1997 Newsgroups: rci.general,chi.media,chi.general,alt.feminism,soc.women,soc.men,alt.politics.liberalism