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Article #17625Re: A Sign? Homosexual Bursts Into Flames at San Francisco Sex Shop
From: richard dickman
Date: Thu, 01 Sep 2011 08:14
Date: Thu, 01 Sep 2011 08:14
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"(�`�.� Craig Chilton �.���) " <a@e.com> wrote:
>
> On Mon, 29 Aug 2011 05:27:55 +0200,
> BIGOTED LOWLIFE, "BILL TAYLOR,"
> {aka "richard dickman") <richarddickman@taos.com> wrote:
> > (�`�.� Craig Chilton �.���)
> > wrote:
> >> BIGOTED LOWLIFE, "BILL TAYLOR,"
> >> {aka [MORONIC ALIAS] wrote:
>
>
> >>> Screaming is good. Faggots do that a lot.
>
> >> Especially when they are LOSING, and their hate-agendas
> >> are ACCELERATING down the Drain of Extinction, from which
> >> they will never be heard from again. As is now happening to
> >> YOU.
>
> > The only good faggot is a cremated faggot.
>
> *Very* TRUE. And GOOD RIDDANCE to all such putrid rubbish!!
> But while we're waiting for that happy and welcome day to arrive,
> case-by-case, there's THIS ---
>
> Previous post follows:
>
Most of us fail to understand why anyone would want to engage in
homosexual activity. To the average person, the very idea is
either puzzling or repugnant. Indeed, a recent survey (1)
indicated that only 14% of men and 10% of women imagined that
such behavior could hold any "possibility of enjoyment."
The peculiar nature of homosexual desire has led some people to
conclude that this urge must be innate: that a certain number of
people are "born that way," that sexual preferences cannot be
changed or even ended. What does the best research really
indicate? Are homosexual proclivities natural or irresistible?
At least three answers seem possible. The first, the answer of
tradition, is as follows: homosexual behavior is a bad habit
that people fall into because they are sexually permissive and
experimental. This view holds rat homosexuals choose their
lifestyle as the result of self-indulgence and an unwillingness
to play by society rules. The second position is held by a
number of psychoanalysts (e.g., Bieber, Socarides). According to
them, homosexual behavior is a mental illness, symptomatic of
arrested development. They believe that homosexuals have
unnatural or perverse desires as a consequence of poor familial
relations in childhood or some other trauma. The third view is
"biological" and holds that such desires are genetic or hormonal
in origin, and that there is no choice involved and no
"childhood trauma" necessary.
Which of these views is most consistent with the facts? Which
tells us the most about homosexual behavior and its origins? The
answer seems to be that homosexual behavior is learned. The
following seven lines of evidence support such a conclusion.
1) No researcher has found provable biological or genitic
differences between heterosexuals and homosexuals that weren't
caused by their behavior
Occasionally you may read about a scientific study that suggests
that homosexuality is an inherited tendency, but such studies
have usually been discounted after careful scrutiny or attempts
at replication. No one has found a single heredible genetic,
hormonal or physical difference between heterosexuals and
homosexuals - at least none that is replicable. (9, 12) While
the absence of such a discovery doesn't prove at inherited
sexual tendencies aren't possible, it suggests that none has
been found because none exists.
2) People tend to believe that their sexual desires and
behaviors are learned
Two large studies asked homosexual respondents to explain the
origins of their desires and behaviors - how they "got that
way." The first of these studies was conducted by Kinsey in the
1940s and involved 1700 homosexuals. The second, in 1970, (4)
involved 979 homosexuals. Both were conducted prior to the
period when the "gay rights" movement started to politicize the
issue of homosexual origins. Both reported essentially the same
findings: Homosexuals overwhelmingly believed their feelings and
behavior were the result of social or environmental influences.
In a 1983 study conducted by the Family Research Institute (5)
(FRI) involving a random sample of 147 homosexuals, 35% said
their sexual desires were hereditary. Interestingly, almost 80%
of the 3,400 heterosexuals in the same study said that their
preferences and behavior were learned (see Table 1 below).
Table 1
Reasons For Preferring:
homosexuality (1940s and 1970)
early homosexual experience(s) with adults and/or peers - 22%
homosexual friends/ around homosexuals a lot - 16%
poor relationship with mother - 15%
unusual development (was a sissy, artistic, couldn't get along
with own sex, tom-boy, et cetera) - 15%
poor relationship with father - 14%
heterosexual partners unavailable - 12%
social ineptitude - 9%
born that way - 9%
heterosexuality (1983)
I was around heterosexuals a lot - 39%
society teaches heterosexuality and I responded - 34%
born that way - 22%
my parents, marriage was so good I wanted to have what they had -
21%
I tried it and liked it - 12%
childhood heterosexual experiences with peers it was the ''in
thing" in my crowd - 9%
I was seduced by a heterosexual adult - 5%
While these results aren't conclusive, they tell something about
the very recent tendency to believe that homosexual behavior is
inherited or biologic. From the 1930s (when Kinsey started
collecting data) to the early 1970s, before a "politically
correct" answer emerged, only about 10% of homosexuals claimed
they were "born that way." Heterosexuals apparently continue to
believe that their behavior is primarily a result of social
conditioning.
3) Older homosexuals often approach the young
There is evidence that homosexuality, like drug use is "handed
down" from older individuals. The first homosexual encounter is
usually initiated by an older person. In separate studies 60%,
(6) 64%, (3) and 61% (10) of the respondents claimed that their
first partner was someone older who initiated the sexual
experience.
How this happens is suggested by a nationwide random study from
Britain: (17) 35% of boys and 9% of girl said they were
approached for sex by adult homosexuals. Whether for attention,
curiosity, or by force, 2% of the boys and 1% of the girls
succumbed. In the US, (1) 37% of males and 9% of females
reported having been approached for homosexual sex (65% of those
doing the inviting were older). Likewise, a study of over 400
London teenagers reported that "for the boys, their first
homosexual experience was very likely with someone older: half
the boys' first partner were 20 or older; for girls it was 43
percent." (13) A quarter of homosexuals have admitted to sex
with children and underaged teens, (6,5,8) suggesting the
homosexuality is introduced to youngsters the same way other
behaviors are learned - by experience.
4) Early homosexual experiences influence adult patterns of
behavior
In the 1980s, scholars (12) examined the early Kinsey data to
determine whether or not childhood sexual experiences predicted
adult behavior. The results were significant: Homosexual
experience in the early year, particularly if it was one's first
sexual experience - was a strong predictor of adult homosexual
behavior, both for males and females. A similar pattern appeared
in the 1970 Kinsey Institute (4) study: there was a strong
relationship between those whose first experience was homosexual
and those who practiced homosexuality in later life. In the FRI
study (5) two-thirds of the boys whose first experience was
homosexual engaged in homosexual behavior as adults; 95% of
those whose first experience was heterosexual were likewise
heterosexual in their adult behavior. A similarly progressive
pattern of sexual behavior was reported for females.
It is remarkable that the three largest empirical studies of the
question showed essentially the same pattern. A child's first
sexual experiences were strongly associated with his or her
adult behavior.
5) Sexual conduct is influenced by cultural factors - especially
religious convictions
Kinsey reported "less homosexual activity among devout groups
whether they be Protestant, Catholic, or Jewish, and more
homosexual activity among religiously less active groups." (2)
The 1983 FRI study found those raised in irreligious homes to be
over 4 times more likely to become homosexual than those from
devout homes. These studies suggest that when people believe
strongly that homosexual behavior is immoral, they are
significantly less apt to be involved in such activity.
Recently, because of the AIDS epidemic, it has been discovered
that, relative to white males, twice as many black males are
homosexual (14) and 4 times as many are bisexual. Perhaps it is
related to the fact that 62% of black versus 17% of white
children are being raised in fatherless homes. But even the
worst racist wouldn't suggest that it is due to genetic
predisposition.
Were homosexual impulses truly inherited, we should be unable to
find differences in homosexual practice due to religious
upbringing or racial sub-culture.
6) Many change their sexual preferences
In a large random sample (5) 88% of women currently claiming
lesbian attraction and 73% of men claiming to currently enjoy
homosexual sex, said that they had been sexually aroused by the
opposite sex,
85% of these "lesbians" and 54% of these "homosexuals" reported
sexual relations with someone of the opposite sex in adulthood,
67% of lesbians and 54% of homosexuals reported current sexual
attraction to the opposite sex, and
82% of lesbians and 66% of homosexuals reported having been in
love with a member of the opposite sex.
Homosexuals experiment. They feel some normal impulses. Most
have been sexually aroused by, had sexual relations with, and
even fallen in love with someone of the opposite sex.
Nationwide random samples (11) of 904 men were asked about their
sex lives since age 21, and more specifically, in the last year.
As the figure reveals, 1.3% reported sex with men in the past
year and 5.2% at some time in adulthood. Less than 1% of men had
only had sex with men during their lives. And 6 of every 7 who
had had sex with men, also reported sex with women.
It's a much different story with inherited characteristics. Race
and gender are not optional lifestyles. They remain immutable.
The switching and experimentation demonstrated in these two
studies identifies homosexuality as a preference, not an
inevitability.
7) There are many ex-homosexuals
Many engage in one or two homosexual experiences and never do it
again�a pattern reported for a third of the males with
homosexual experience in one study. (1) And then there are ex-
homosexuals - those who have continued in homosexual liaisons
for a number of years and then chose to change not only their
habits, but also the object of their desire. Sometimes this
alteration occurs as the result of psychotherapy; (10) in others
it is prompted by a religious or spiritual conversion. (18)
Similar to the kinds of "cures" achieved by drug addicts and
alcoholics, these treatments do not always remove homosexual
desire or temptation. Whatever the mechanism, in a 1984 study
(5) almost 2% of heterosexuals reported that at one time they
considered themselves to be homosexual. It is clear that a
substantial number of people are reconsidering their sexual
preferences at any given time.
What causes homosexual desire?
If homosexual impulses are not inherited, what kinds of
influences do cause strong homosexual desires? No one answer is
acceptable to all researchers in the field. Important factors,
however, seem to fall into four categories. As with so many
other odd sexual proclivities, males appear especially
susceptible:
1. Homosexual experience:
any homosexual experience in childhood, especially if it is a
first sexual experience or with an adult
any homosexual contact with an adult, particularly with a
relative or authority figure (in a random survey, 5% of adult
homosexuals vs 0.8% of heterosexuals reported childhood sexual
involvements with elementary or secondary school teachers (5).
2. Family abnormality, including the following:
a dominant, possessive, or rejecting mother
an absent, distant, or rejecting father
a parent with homosexual proclivities, particularly one who
molests a child of the same sex
a sibling with homosexual tendencies, particularly one who
molests a brother or sister
the lack of a religious home environment
divorce, which often leads to sexual problems for both the
children and the adults
parents who model unconventional sex roles condoning
homosexuality as a legitimate lifestyle� welcoming homosexuals
(e.g., co-workers, friends) into the family circle
3. Unusual sexual experience, particularly in early childhood:
precocious or excessive masturbation
exposure to pornography in childhood
depersonalized sex (e.g., group sex, sex with animals)
or girls, sexual interaction with adult males
4. Cultural influences:
a visible and socially approved homosexual sub-culture that
invites curiosity and encourages exploration
pro-homosexual sex education
openly homosexual authority figures, such as teachers (4% of
Kinsey's and 4% of FRI's gays reported that their first
homosexual experience was with a teacher)
societal and legal toleration of homosexual acts
depictions of homosexuality as normal and/or desirable behavior
Can homosexuality be changed?
Certainly. As noted above, many people have turned away from
homosexuality - almost as many people call themselves "gay."
Clearly the easier problem to eliminate is homosexual behavior.
Just as many heterosexuals control their desires to engage in
premarital or extramarital sex, so some with homosexual desires
discipline themselves to abstain from homosexual contact.
One thing seems to stand out: Associations are all-important.
Anyone who wants to abstain from homosexual behavior should
avoid the company of practicing homosexuals. There are
organizations including "ex-gay ministries, " (18) designed to
help those who wish to reform their conduct. Psychotherapy
claims about a 30% cure rate, and religious commitment seems to
be the most helpful factor in avoiding homosexual habits.
By Paul Cameron, Ph. D.
Dr. Cameron is Chariman of the Family Research Institute of
Colorado Springs, Colorado USA.
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