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Allen wrote:
> 
> God know what I should do now!!
> I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years. We've been through a 3 year
> long distance relationship. It's Hard, but we get through it.
> I love her very much. She becomes part of my life, becomes part of
> myself.
> I need to take a serious surgery to take that part out of my body. I am
> now.
> Our relationship changes just a sudden. She told me "Our characters just
> don't match. Short hurt is better than Long hurt". Is this an excuse, an
> excuse to face the problem?
> She is hiding from me, even not returning my call.
> Speaking from the bottom of my heart, I still love her, my heart is
> still waiting, though wound.
> I don't want to look pathetic in front of her. Looks like she has a firm
> answer, it's not going to change. I really don't want to give up.
> Should I keep trying, or should I just be easy and let go?
> Who can tell me? Anybody? God, can you?

Hey, it would be better if you can stop loving that girl lor~~~
heehee^o^ Is she really that attractive to you?? >.< Anyway there's no
reason for loving a person~~~ ^o^

I suggest u go to her & say "I won't let u go" as soon as possible. 

Allen <a@yahoo.com> wrote in article <361F03AC.A87EA0D6@yahoo.com>...
> God know what I should do now!!
> I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years. We've been through a 3 year
> long distance relationship. It's Hard, but we get through it.
> I love her very much. She becomes part of my life, becomes part of
> myself.
> I need to take a serious surgery to take that part out of my body. I am
> now.
> Our relationship changes just a sudden. She told me "Our characters just
> don't match. Short hurt is better than Long hurt". Is this an excuse, an
> excuse to face the problem?
> She is hiding from me, even not returning my call.
> Speaking from the bottom of my heart, I still love her, my heart is
> still waiting, though wound.
> I don't want to look pathetic in front of her. Looks like she has a firm
> answer, it's not going to change. I really don't want to give up.
> Should I keep trying, or should I just be easy and let go?
> Who can tell me? Anybody? God, can you?
> 
> 

Chances are that your girl is seeing someone else.  You could return to H.K.
and do whatever you can to salvage your relationship.  But you would have a
better chance winning her back if you could get her to visit you, even for a
short period of time.  My girl for 10 years left me for someone I never met.
I never saw it coming because I failed to notice the signs.  Take it from
someone who had been there, you are on the verge of losing your love and it
is up to you to save the relationship.  It is now or never.  You may not win
back your love despite your effort, but at least you have a shot ...
something I never had.
Allen wrote in message <361F03AC.A87EA0D6@yahoo.com>...
>God know what I should do now!!
>I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years. We've been through a 3 year
>long distance relationship. It's Hard, but we get through it.
>I love her very much. She becomes part of my life, becomes part of
>myself.
>I need to take a serious surgery to take that part out of my body. I am
>now.
>Our relationship changes just a sudden. She told me "Our characters just
>don't match. Short hurt is better than Long hurt". Is this an excuse, an
>excuse to face the problem?
>She is hiding from me, even not returning my call.
>Speaking from the bottom of my heart, I still love her, my heart is
>still waiting, though wound.
>I don't want to look pathetic in front of her. Looks like she has a firm
>answer, it's not going to change. I really don't want to give up.
>Should I keep trying, or should I just be easy and let go?
>Who can tell me? Anybody? God, can you?
>

What else can you do? If you have to take the surgery, do it! Afterward,
spend good time to
make yourself better. As for that girl, well, plenty of trees in the forest.

Allen wrote:

> God know what I should do now!!
> I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years. We've been through a 3 year
> long distance relationship. It's Hard, but we get through it.
> I love her very much. She becomes part of my life, becomes part of
> myself.
> I need to take a serious surgery to take that part out of my body. I am
> now.
> Our relationship changes just a sudden. She told me "Our characters just
> don't match. Short hurt is better than Long hurt". Is this an excuse, an
> excuse to face the problem?
> She is hiding from me, even not returning my call.
> Speaking from the bottom of my heart, I still love her, my heart is
> still waiting, though wound.
> I don't want to look pathetic in front of her. Looks like she has a firm
> answer, it's not going to change. I really don't want to give up.
> Should I keep trying, or should I just be easy and let go?
> Who can tell me? Anybody? God, can you?

Goku, I agree with you, "It is now or never". I have made up my mind to save the
relationship. I think I could overcome most of my problem and my weaknesses. One
thing I think could most hurt me and prevent me from winning her back is her
"decisive". It's hard.

You must be very regret for your past relationship. It is a tragedy.

Goku wrote:

> Chances are that your girl is seeing someone else.  You could return to H.K.
> and do whatever you can to salvage your relationship.  But you would have a
> better chance winning her back if you could get her to visit you, even for a
> short period of time.  My girl for 10 years left me for someone I never met.
> I never saw it coming because I failed to notice the signs.  Take it from
> someone who had been there, you are on the verge of losing your love and it
> is up to you to save the relationship.  It is now or never.  You may not win
> back your love despite your effort, but at least you have a shot ...
> something I never had.
> Allen wrote in message <361F03AC.A87EA0D6@yahoo.com>...
> >God know what I should do now!!
> >I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years. We've been through a 3 year
> >long distance relationship. It's Hard, but we get through it.
> >I love her very much. She becomes part of my life, becomes part of
> >myself.
> >I need to take a serious surgery to take that part out of my body. I am
> >now.
> >Our relationship changes just a sudden. She told me "Our characters just
> >don't match. Short hurt is better than Long hurt". Is this an excuse, an
> >excuse to face the problem?
> >She is hiding from me, even not returning my call.
> >Speaking from the bottom of my heart, I still love her, my heart is
> >still waiting, though wound.
> >I don't want to look pathetic in front of her. Looks like she has a firm
> >answer, it's not going to change. I really don't want to give up.
> >Should I keep trying, or should I just be easy and let go?
> >Who can tell me? Anybody? God, can you?
> >

Good for you and Godspeed!

Allen wrote in message <3624C584.4D20346F@yahoo.com>...
>Goku, I agree with you, "It is now or never". I have made up my mind to
save the
>relationship. I think I could overcome most of my problem and my
weaknesses. One
>thing I think could most hurt me and prevent me from winning her back is
her
>"decisive". It's hard.
>
>You must be very regret for your past relationship. It is a tragedy.
>
>Goku wrote:
>
>> Chances are that your girl is seeing someone else.  You could return to
H.K.
>> and do whatever you can to salvage your relationship.  But you would have
a
>> better chance winning her back if you could get her to visit you, even
for a
>> short period of time.  My girl for 10 years left me for someone I never
met.
>> I never saw it coming because I failed to notice the signs.  Take it from
>> someone who had been there, you are on the verge of losing your love and
it
>> is up to you to save the relationship.  It is now or never.  You may not
win
>> back your love despite your effort, but at least you have a shot ...
>> something I never had.
>> Allen wrote in message <361F03AC.A87EA0D6@yahoo.com>...
>> >God know what I should do now!!
>> >I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years. We've been through a 3 year
>> >long distance relationship. It's Hard, but we get through it.
>> >I love her very much. She becomes part of my life, becomes part of
>> >myself.
>> >I need to take a serious surgery to take that part out of my body. I am
>> >now.
>> >Our relationship changes just a sudden. She told me "Our characters just
>> >don't match. Short hurt is better than Long hurt". Is this an excuse, an
>> >excuse to face the problem?
>> >She is hiding from me, even not returning my call.
>> >Speaking from the bottom of my heart, I still love her, my heart is
>> >still waiting, though wound.
>> >I don't want to look pathetic in front of her. Looks like she has a firm
>> >answer, it's not going to change. I really don't want to give up.
>> >Should I keep trying, or should I just be easy and let go?
>> >Who can tell me? Anybody? God, can you?
>> >
>