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>I hear people from conservative cultures often say that, if they were 
>to find their wife in bed with another man, they would kill her.

There would be a death of feelings: Betrayal to a word, an oath, a
vow, a promise.  Yes, you are right. One would feel badly. BUT there
is the alternative which if not explored by your post. Please, tell
us, oh Bodhicatva! May we sex whom we please, in the street, be they
dead, or simply cats? Can we have Karma with such animals, be they
live, or simply non-insects? For if you discriminate for anything,
then it is death and conservative, no? And death is merely another
form of smiling, yes?

>This is known as racket anger. A person makes up phony reasons to be
>angry and paranoid in order to justify abusive behavior on his part.

Yes, "phony reason" is what I like. It is as "jumbo shrimp" and all
the other really, really, true things around US all the time. Anger
paranoia, desire, are all illusionary, so true. Ecclesiastics is
false, no? There is no season to be happy, no time for war, no time
for peace, no time for joy, no time to lay down, no time to love, no
time to hate. You are right, so thanks for the letter.

>Frequently the person who has such expectations going into the 
>relationship mistreats his woman so badly that she feels great 
>temptation to seek extramarital affairs in order to simply get a break
>from constant agony. At which point he says that she was just what he 
>had expected her to be and teaches his children that women are evil.
>For the sake of making the world habitable, this idiocy has to end.

Wait~ why do you wish to make this world "habitable"? 
Oh, here I was to worship all of you, completely, every single word
you wrote that makes sense, and yet you wish to do something you
consider "good". Must I have faith in that? Or anything you write, or
anyone else?

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Talk to the finger, 'cause it don't deserve a whole hand.