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Re: help needed

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From: JMP
Date: Sun, 07 May 2000 00:00
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Thanks for your answer, Barb,

I am home for the time being and the support I am getting from you all helps
me a lot.

I am just frightened at the first day we will meet again at the office. That
is where I began
this nervous breakdown for 2 weeks now. I try not to think about it too much
in advance.

All the best and peace be with you too.
Jacky

BJ&GJC <cookie4@primus.com.au> schrieb in im Newsbeitrag:
391531b0@news.iprimus.com.au...
> Jacky,
>  its important to save yourself first before you even attempt to assist
your
> friend.
> Believe in yourself and you have already identified your problems have
been
> since you have been in a relationship with this male but because you are
> close to this a man with his problems he is subtly removing your
strengths!!
>
> Do not take responsibility for his problems!! He is an adult who should
have
> his own support mechanisms (ie wife and son) who I believe have supported
> each other over the years even though it sounds quiet a dysfunctional
> family.
>
> Jacky please get help for your depression once that is under control you
> will be able to assist your friend more if you feel you can. You may have
> changed your mind by then and may not want that relationship.
> Whatever take care
> cheers Barb
>
>
>
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From: "JMP" <pastelle@freesurf.fr>
Subject: Re: help needed
Date: 2000/05/07
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