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Article #12Re: help needed
From: JMP
Date: Sun, 07 May 2000 00:00
Date: Sun, 07 May 2000 00:00
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Thanks for your answer, Barb, I am home for the time being and the support I am getting from you all helps me a lot. I am just frightened at the first day we will meet again at the office. That is where I began this nervous breakdown for 2 weeks now. I try not to think about it too much in advance. All the best and peace be with you too. Jacky BJ&GJC <cookie4@primus.com.au> schrieb in im Newsbeitrag: 391531b0@news.iprimus.com.au... > Jacky, > its important to save yourself first before you even attempt to assist your > friend. > Believe in yourself and you have already identified your problems have been > since you have been in a relationship with this male but because you are > close to this a man with his problems he is subtly removing your strengths!! > > Do not take responsibility for his problems!! He is an adult who should have > his own support mechanisms (ie wife and son) who I believe have supported > each other over the years even though it sounds quiet a dysfunctional > family. > > Jacky please get help for your depression once that is under control you > will be able to assist your friend more if you feel you can. You may have > changed your mind by then and may not want that relationship. > Whatever take care > cheers Barb > > >
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X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: fab66,9f03058b97c55501 X-Google-Attributes: gidfab66,public X-Google-Thread: fe850,9f03058b97c55501 X-Google-Attributes: gidfe850,public X-Google-Thread: 105792,9f03058b97c55501 X-Google-Attributes: gid105792,public X-Google-Thread: 1093e9,9f03058b97c55501 X-Google-Attributes: gid1093e9,public X-Google-Thread: 1070c2,9f03058b97c55501 X-Google-Attributes: gid1070c2,public From: "JMP" <pastelle@freesurf.fr> Subject: Re: help needed Date: 2000/05/07 Message-ID: <7LeR4.12748$rR2.1475565@nnrp3.clara.net> X-Deja-AN: 620275543 References: <eBeQ4.10251$rR2.1190893@nnrp3.clara.net> <391531b0@news.iprimus.com.au> X-Priority: 3 X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V5.00.2615.200 X-Complaints-To: abuse@freesurf.fr X-Trace: nnrp3.clara.net 957708355 212.43.209.211 (Sun, 07 May 2000 15:05:55 BST) X-MSMail-Priority: Normal NNTP-Posting-Date: Sun, 07 May 2000 15:05:55 BST Newsgroups: alt.support.grief,alt.support.trauma-ptsd,cl.gesundheit.allgemein,de.sci.medizin.psychiatrie,de.sci.psychologie